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Six good things in March

March 29, 2018 by Jana 11 Comments

Hey there. Remember me? I used to have things to say and opinions to share. It was a good time. But life doesn’t always work like that and right now, things are not exactly…fun. There’s a lot going on I can’t and won’t talk about and most days, they’re all consuming and it takes everything I have just make it from sunup to sundown most days and writing seems so trivial and unimportant. I’m pretty much in survival mode and I’m looking forward to some resolutions and resuming some semblance of normalcy.

Just like I did back in January, I decided to make a list of some good things to remind myself that in the midst of all the shit, not everything sucks.

Opening Day! Thank god for baseball. I fucking love it even if the Mets give me more stress than is appropriate for someone who doesn’t actually wear the uniform. I love how life feels…better when baseball season is here. The best way I can describe it is the way so many people feel at peace during Christmastime. And, fun fact, At Bat is only one of three apps allowed to give notifications on my phone.

New music. For some reason that I’m not complaining about, so many bands I listen to have new music out right now. Shinedown, Breaking Benjamin, Pop Evil, Adelita’s Way, Godsmack. It’s a long list and it’s refreshing to my ears.

Iced coffee. I drink it year-round (thanks to Steph’s recipe) so it’s not like it’s in season for me or anything but I do love it and when you don’t drink soda or juice and tea only gets you so far, it’s nice to have something in the fridge to accompany my water.

Tanya. GUYS. If you need anything designed for your blog or work or anything you’re working on, please hire her. Not only is she ridiculously nice, she is crazy talented. She redesigned my blog last year and she’s in the middle of doing my business site. Plus, she’s a small business owner and we all need to stick together.

The Parkland kids. I am in awe of the intelligence, strength, courage, determination, and smart assery of these kids. They are inspiring and if these are the kids leading our future, we’re going to be okay. And props to their parents for letting them do their thing. It’s hard to take a backseat and watch your kid lead without wanting to step in, and for these parents it’s 100 times worse given that their children are harassed, maligned, and verbally assaulted by adults who should know better, but I couldn’t tell you the name of a single mom or dad of these kids. This is all them.

Friends. Friends you can call or text and say “my life is shit” and they just listen. They don’t placate you with bullshit inspiring platitudes or tell you to cheer up because it’s just not that bad and you’re just so strong. We all need people who realize that sometimes it’s okay not to be okay and they support us in our not-okayness.

Not going to lie. Getting to 6 was difficult. But I did it.

What are some good things going on in your life lately?

 

 

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: lists, random

JA BizTown: An insider’s perspective (or: An interview with my child)

December 7, 2017 by Jana 9 Comments

There’s a lot of chatter in some of the circles I travel in (on the internet because on my current budget, I’m not doing any travel unrelated to cheerleading) that schools are doing a terrible job teaching personal finance. And that might be true for some but I can honestly say that it’s not been the case for my daughter. In fact, it’s been the exact opposite. Since 3rd grade, she’s had an economics unit, she can participate in savings at school through one of the banks, and this year, they went to a JA BizTown, run through the Junior Achievement of Delaware (it’s in a bunch of states).

I had no idea it existed so when she came home telling me about it, I was pretty interested. And curious. And she asked me to chaperone and I did (I was assigned to the newspaper. Probably the most apropos volunteer placement in the history of my volunteering). I should probably write about my experience and perspective on it (as well as my experience with an amazing event I did through CFSI while I was in Dallas. I do have a post drafted and in need of finishing, though). But instead of you hearing me talk about it, my daughter was eager to share her thoughts and opinions. She is my child. So I asked her a bunch of questions, interview-style, and this is what she had to say:

(P.S. I added a few liner notes throughout her responses. I couldn’t stay completely quiet.)

Me: Can you explain what BizTown is?

Child: BizTown is a place where there are all different businesses and instead of them being run by adults, the entire town is run by kids with some adults showing the kids what to do.

These are terrible pictures. I don’t know why they’re so damn blurry. But it’s supposed to show a whole bunch of different businesses featured in the town.

Me: What kind of businesses are in BizTown?

Child: Basic living businesses like a bank, a radio station, a wellness center, a drugstore, a print shop, and insurance agency. There were also government services like police, paramedics, a mayor, utilities, and a science center. There was not a grocery store, though, which I wish there would have been.

Me: So what did you do while you were there?

Child: I worked for the radio station as a reporter. I walked around and interviewed citizens about things like what they like, what they dislike, the prices of their products and services, how hard they thought working is, and what they thought of BizTown. I was also trying to report on the news but there wasn’t too much and I didn’t get it all in time.

Me: Was working as a reporter hard?

Child: In some ways. It was hard to find news and also DJ at the same time (when our DJ was on break, I had to fill in for him) but it wasn’t hard since I didn’t have to do too much beyond walk around and interview people.

Me: Do you think it would have been harder to be a newspaper reporter? 

Child: Probably not because there wasn’t a lot of news like accidents or crime or elections. (Jana says: There was actually a “crime”. She missed it)

Me: Was it hard to manage your job and all the personal tasks you had to do like eat lunch and go to the bank during your free time?

Child: Not really. I had enough time to do everything because I did some stuff beforehand like fill out my deposit tickets and you packed my lunch. 

Me: Do you think if you had a little bit more of a demanding job or if there were more news to report on, it would have been harder to balance your job and personal tasks? 

Child: Probably not because everyone had the same amount of time. (Jana says: I wholeheartedly disagree with her belief here but I am also an adult with actual life experience)

Me: Tell me about managing your money. What kinds of things did you have to do?

Child: You had to keep track of how much you had in funds. You had to make sure you put enough money in the bank so you could buy the things you want. You had to open a savings account and remember to put that check in.

Me: Was it hard?

Child: It wasn’t too hard. (Jana says: I think if you ask different kids with different jobs or different capabilities, you’d get a VERY different answer)

Me: Why not?

Child: Because you knew in advance what your paycheck was going to be and you also had enough time to write the deposit ticket (Jana says: I could go off an a HUGE tangent about this but I will not).

Me: Do you think if you had bills to pay and more things you needed to buy, it would have been more difficult?

Child: Yes. Like, if I were the CEO or CFO and had to pay bills for the business, paid back loans, or paid my employees the right amount. This also goes for personal stuff. I wish we’d had more time to manage personal stuff for getting to work like transportation and buying lunch.

Me: Do you think you would have learned a little more about managing money if you had to take personal expenses into account (no pun intended)? 

Child: Yes.

Me: But overall, did you learn what it takes to manage money and time at a job?

Child: Very much so. I had to make sure I had enough money to buy the things I wanted within the time I had during my breaks so I was back at work when I had to be.

Me: Do you think it’s hard to be a working adult?

Child: YES.

Me: Last question. What your favorite part of BizTown?

Child: Being able to be the DJ when he was on break. If it were my assigned job, it might have been boring but since I only had to do it occasionally, it was fun.

Me: Anything I didn’t ask you that you want to add?

Child: GO TO BIZTOWN!!!! That is it. 

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: finances, random

Working titles

October 3, 2017 by Jana 15 Comments

Now that I’m 40 I think it might be time to write my memoir. After all, I have a few decades of experience to share along with some wisdom and knowledge and truth bombs (that’s the term the kids are using these days, right?).

But what to name it? I have a few working titles:

Where’d I Park My Car?: A Life in 50 Parking Lots

Inspiration: My Life Between Sneezes

Hiding in the Bathroom: 47 Ways to Get Some Damn Peace

I Conquered Laundry Mountain: Great Achievements of the 90s-Now

That’s Where That Went!: Things I’ve Found in My Bra

Sure, I Like Her (and Other Lies I’ve Told)

I’m Not a Joiner: Tips for Avoiding the PTA

Wear Those Pants All Week and Don’t Wash Your Hair: A Style Guide for Moms

Carpool Confessions

Cereal, Grilled Cheese, and Chips: A Weeknight Cookbook

What do you think? What would you name your memoir?

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: humor, lists, random

Weekly six pack, 2017, v23

August 25, 2017 by Jana 10 Comments

Trying to get back into the swing of things. It’s not going well but at least I get an A for effort. Hell, I’d settle for a C at this point. And average is good. 

Reading. Definitely not blogs but most certainly books. Plowing through The Good Daughter, picked up The Cleaner, and have only two more before I start to tackle the NetGalley queue. 

Watching. Um…nothing? I have this habit of bingeing on a few shows at once and then barely turning on the TV for weeks.  I have a few shows I DVR and then watch all on one day (currently: Ray Donovan, Snowfall, John Oliver) but that’s it. I couldn’t even tell you when a few of the shows I like to watch are starting and I know there’s one new one but if you gave me money I couldn’t name it. 

Eating. Now that I’ve finally detoxed from Twizzlers and Sour Patch Kids, I’m on the cheese and tomato train. And cashews. 

Raging. At the Mets. I have accepted that this year, they suck balls. Big time suck balls. It’s fine because it comes with the territory of being a Mets fan. It’s heartache and rage wrapped in a awesomeness and delight. HOWEVER. WHY ARE THEY TRADING AWAY EVERYONE WHO HELPS THEM BE BETTER ? They’ve majorly unloaded and it’s a horror show and I’m having a really hard time liking them right now. 

Running. No, that’s it. I’ve been running. I hate every single step and every single minute but my weight loss has stalled a bit and my boxing instructor said that running is a good way to kick it back in the ass (my words, not hers. She was more polite) and it seems to be working for the most part. We’ll see what happens. 

Wanting. All the things. I have a list of like 46 items I plan to buy as money allows because I am a girl whose wants are currently bigger than her budget. Why couldn’t this have happened back in June, when it was my birthday? Oh, well. Hanukkah and Christmas are soon.  

Quick admin note: in a few short weeks, they’ll be some aesthetic changes around these parts. I’m excited for them. Tanya fucking rocks!

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Entertainment, favorites, random, weekly wrap-up

Charlottesville

August 13, 2017 by Jana 14 Comments

My blog is my safe space and I'm in no mood to argue with people on FB so if you wanted to know my thoughts on Charlottesville, well, here you go.

I don't need to recap in detail what happened in Charlottesville over the weekend. Everyone's already aware that a bunch of neo-Nazi white supremacist racist assholes protested in a "Unite the Right" gathering the removal of a Robert E. Lee statue. But let's be clear. That wasn't what they were doing.

And we all know it.

What happened wasn't about a statue or uniting a political party. No. It was about attempting to instill fear and oppression into groups that are already institutionally marginalized in this country. And it could have worked too if more people were ambivalent and didn't give a shit. But, surprise, motherfuckers! We've progressed to the point that overt Nazism and racism will be met with loud, outspoken opposition. LOVE TRUMPS HATE. Because if it doesn't, if we stay silent, we're aiding and abetting.

I could spend time commenting on 45's lack of condemnation and vague words and how ineffective he is in every capacity and how his subtle and blatant anti-Semitism and racism and xenophobia have emboldened and empowered the white supremacists but I'm not going to do that. He gets too much attention as it is. Rather, what I'm going to say is this.

If you want to be a racist, FINE. If you want to be anti-Semitic, FINE. If you want to spend your weekends spreading messages of hate and invoking the first amendment so you can do so, FINE. I can't stop you. But do not FOR ONE MINUTE expect that your words will not be met with resistance and that we will not do so with the same protections you covet despite your and your White House ally's attempts to silence us.

Because we will not be silenced.

We speak loud and clear and far.

There is no room in this country for that kind of hate. There simply isn't.

And we're going to keep reminding you.

In the name of Heather and everyone else who stood up to you and your hate in Charlottesville. We owe it to her and them.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: opinions, random, rants

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