Today’s my birthday! I’m 41 which I’m actually fine with. Being in my 40s doesn’t intimidate me or make me feel old. That’s not sarcasm, either. I know a lot of ladies in their thirties who are TERRIFIED of turning 40 and honestly, it’s nothing to be scared of. At all. It’s pretty cool, in fact.
Like, you can say you’re tired at 7PM and no one questions it. You give less fucks about the insignificant things and more fucks about the important ones. You can be forgetful on purpose and people just think it’s not and it’s because you’re old and they forgive you. You embrace all the things about you that maybe you hated in your 20s and 30s. And you realize that the shit you grew up on is really the best stuff ever.
And because it’s my birthday and I’m trying to get back into this regular blogging thing, and I do three things once a month, this month’s is birthday themed. Someone (sorry, I forgot who. Not on purpose) suggested that I do a “last things” edition and I’ll do that one next month because I keep my promises.
Three memorable birthday celebrations
- 13 because it was my bat mitzvah
- 16 because of the whole sweet 16 thing
- 30 because I went to a Mets game at Shea Stadium before they demolished it the next year
Three celebrities who also have birthdays today
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- Mark Wahlberg
- Kenny G
- Ron Livingston (this guy:)
Three reasons I love my birthday
- Cake
- Free stuff
- Five is a nice incremental number
Three facts about my birthday specific to me
- I was 18 days late
- I was born 4 days after my parents’ 3rd wedding anniversary
- I was born in 1977 and since I lived in Queens, I was alive and lived through the Son of Sam rampage which might or might not explain my true crime thing (book recommendation related to this fact: Burn Baby Burn by Meg Medina)
Three birthday traditions I have
- I go shopping with gift cards I’ve saved since Christmas
- It’s one of only two days a year I talk to a particular friend (the other day is his birthday)
- I take the day off from working
Bonus tradition: my dad calls me every year at the exact minute I was born. This is 7:36AM. It is very early for phone calls.
Three wishes for my birthday this year
- A shopping spree in a bookstore
- A giant cannoli filled with carrot cake. Not just the frosting. Actual carrot cake.
- The impeachment of 45
Happy birthday to me and anyone else celebrating a June birthday!