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Make your own mending basket

April 28, 2014 by Jana 14 Comments

One of the most essential pioneer skills is sewing. Without sewing, the pioneers would be naked, cold, have no curtains to separate rooms or block the sunlight, and a big part of their socialization would disappear (quilting bees, for instance, provided pioneers with a practical social outlet. And, not only that, they pooled their resources in terms of manpower and materials to get things done). 

All of that would suck. 

Which is why I picked sewing as one of the skills I would focus on for this project. Thanks to home ec in middle school, I already knew how to sew a button and a seam (which has come in handy on many, many occasions) and I recently remembered that I know how to sew throw pillows as well. That’s it, though. I cannot sew anything else. I’m working on it, though, and I’ll share many of my disasters attempts as I work through them. 

However, for today, we’re going to focus on mending. Mending is essential to the pioneer value of frugality as well as the making due with what you have. Sometimes, we’re so quick to throw something away because of a small hole or a missing button that we forget how easy it is to fix with the right materials. If you don’t know how to sew, YouTube is ridiculously helpful for learning how to do things like sew a button. And I don’t know about you, but when I find a pair of jeans that finally fits right, I don’t want to have to look for another pair simply because the button fell off or the hem starts to fall out. I’d rather take a few minutes and fix what I have because this also means I don’t have to shop (which I utterly detest). 

If you’ve read the Little House or any other pioneer life books (fiction or nonfiction), you’ll read (a lot) about mending baskets. They’re the most convenient way to keep all of your mending supplies in one place so when you do need to fix something, you just have to find one box instead of 42 separate items. If you don’t want to create a mending basket, you can buy one of those sewing kits that has a few types of thread, needles, and a small tape measure. That’ll work, too. For today’s post, though, we’re going to take a peak at what I keep in my basket because I wanted a little more than the premade kit. 

This is what my mending basket (well, box, really) looks like:

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In case you can’t tell what everything is, I have a bunch of different colored thread, some marking pencils for hems, pins to hold stuff in place, and a whole bunch of needles. Then I put all of that stuff–which I purchased at Michael’s for probably less than $15–in a plastic box I found at the dollar store. 

I also have this stuff, too, as well as an entire box of buttons and snaps I’ve collected over the years (you know how when you buy a button down shirt and it comes with extra buttons? I hoard those in an old perfume tin):

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Having these supplies on hand has saved my ass (and my wallet) on more than one occasion. I’ve been able to fix so many items from blankets to doll clothes to jackets. And, having these basic skills, means I have the foundation to work on bigger projects. 

If you’re interested in starting your own mending basket, here’s a quick shopping list:

shopping list

Quick cheat: I put hem tape on the list. If you don’t trust your sewing skills, there’s iron-on hem tape you can use instead. You’ll still have to measure and pin, but no sewing involved. Just a bit of ironing. 

So that’s it. That’s all you need to do to create your own mending basket. And if you shop at Michael’s to buy your stuff, they usually have coupons so you can save even more money. 

Good luck!

Filed Under: Life, Pioneer Project, Sewing Tagged With: homemaking, living the life, pioneer traits

Pity party, table for 1

April 9, 2014 by Jana 11 Comments

So it’s only Wednesday and this week pretty much sucks. In addition to some personal stuff, I’m battling the onset of a depressive episode, I’ve had my debit card number stolen, and yesterday, I found out that I need reading glasses. That last one not particularly hard because as if I wasn’t already feeling old, that sealed the fact that I am, in fact, closer to 40 than 30. Even if I feel maybe 17 on a good day.

But we’ll talk about my birthday and feelings on getting older in June. When I was born.

20140409-172225.jpgAll of this has me feeling really bad for myself. In a “woe is me, my life sucks, and this is the worst week EVER” type self-pity. And as much as I want to crawl into bed with a book and sleep until the week is over, I need to get over this shit. I mean, when Pa Ingalls lost his entire wheat crop to grasshoppers, he didn’t cry or act out; he cleaned up and moved on. When Mary went blind, she didn’t stop sewing or learning; she just went about them differently.

And quite frankly, losing your entire source of income or your site is way worse than what I’m dealing with.

I’m not religious but I have several close friends who are, and I’ve heard them talking about finding what they’re thankful for in the midst of bad situations. I feel like this is something that the pioneers would do–being grateful in a shitty situation. Given my week, I think I’m going to give it a shot.

Here goes.

  • Instead of being pissed off that my debit card number was stolen, I’m grateful that my bank is so vigilant about that stuff and I received an email notifying me of the suspicious purchase within 30 minutes of it happening. I’m grateful they have a 24 hour customer service line and they were able to freeze my card immediately. I am also grateful that all of the bills I paid using the card went through and none of my accounts are delinquent as a result. And I’m grateful that my husband has a different card number so we still have access to our money.
  • Instead of being upset that I need reading glasses, I’m grateful for our health insurance that affords me the ability to have a yearly eye exam so my deteriorating eyes could get help before it became a major problem. I’m grateful that we have an FSA that had enough money in it so we could pay for the glasses because this was not at all a planned expense (so no accrued debt for the glasses). And I’m grateful other than needing glasses, I have no other issues with my eyes.
  • The depression thing is a little harder. I’m not particularly thrilled about it, but I’m grateful that I know what the symptoms are so I can ward them off as best I can. I’m grateful that I have friends I can talk to who understand what this feels like, I’m grateful I have a blog where I can vent about it, and I’m grateful that I have the kind of schedule that allows for the type of self-care I need.

Gratitude is hard, yo.

But.

Having written all that out, I can’t say that I feel 100% better but it definitely did help to see how much worse it could be. I have a lot more to be happy about than I do to be upset. And wallowing in self-pity, while it feels good, isn’t going to improve anything. I own big girl panties for a reason. I think with them, and my new, healthy does of gratitude, I can make it through the rest of the week.

And, if none of that works, I can always look at this picture of Hank, the baseball dog. Because he is my favorite thing of the year so far.

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Filed Under: Life, Random thoughts Tagged With: confessions, mental health, pioneer traits

Fighting the good fight

March 20, 2014 by Jana 12 Comments

On my old site, Jana Says, I talked extensively about my depression and anxiety issues. They’re a huge part of who I am, even if I don’t want them to be and instead of a monkey on my back, they’re like these two giant, annoying, asshole neighbors who are constantly spying on me, trying to get all up in my business, making everything difficult and most days, impossible to accomplish anything because they’re just…there. They pull up some couch and sit and they never quite know when it’s time to go home. And, being the good hostess I am, I have to entertain them. 

As a result, most days are a huge struggle to even get out of bed. But deep down, I know that I’ll feel even worse if I mope about, staying in bed, not doing anything except Facebook stalking and taking BuzzFeed quizzes (for those who are interested, I should live in Portland, Tina Fey will play me in a movie, I’m a sandwich, and Scooter is my spirit Muppet) so I haul my ass out from underneath my cocoon of covers and dogs and go about my day the best that I can. 

Some days I succeed, some days I don’t. It’s a crap shoot. It all depends on what phrases I tell myself first thing in the morning. Occasionally, I have a Stuart Smalley moment. Most days, I don’t. Negative self-talk is something I am extremely proficient in and even my year of therapy couldn’t change that. I don’t need people to be hard on me because I’m hard enough on myself. You know that song “My Own Worst Enemy”? Yeah, that’s me. Or, even more accurately, this:

Thanks, Dukes of Hazzard, for making me feel like I spelled "hazard" incorrectly
Thanks, Dukes of Hazzard, for making me feel like I spelled “hazard” incorrectly

While it’s true that I am not one of those people for whom things come easily, and I have to work twice as hard as some people for a third of the results, I know that some of my problems are of my own doing. 

  • I shut myself off from people when life get too hard instead of reaching out for help.
  • I don’t work as diligently as I should because I get overwhelmed with my to-do list and instead of ticking things off one at a time, I quit.
  • My blog and business aren’t growing as fast as I’d like because I’ve told myself no one cares or wants to be part of them (and I’m terrible at self-promotion and instead of getting over my shit, I hide).
  • I let myself be overcome with jealousy at others’ successes and tell myself that I’ll never get there because I don’t deserve it.
  • I let myself feel intimidated by others’ productivity and ability to manage their time and instead of working on improving, I stop doing everything because I tell myself I can’t keep up so there’s no real sense in trying.

Admittedly, I’m a fucking disaster. Because absolutely none of my problems are the result of anything other than the fact that I have a messed up way of thinking. Because consciously, I know this is all bullshit. I have tangible proof that it’s all bullshit. I have intangible proof that it’s all bullshit. Yet, day after day, I convince myself it’s all true.

If I believe it’s all true, it begs the question–why the hell do I even keep trying? 

That’s a question I ask every day.

Sometimes, I don’t know what keeps me going or why. Other days, I keep trying because I need to prove my demons wrong. I like being right. I like winning arguments. I like telling people to suck it because they didn’t believe in me. I like a good fight. 

And most of all, I keep trying because I want to be different. I want to have a positive self-image. I want to be confident and determined. I want to look in the mirror and be happy instead of overly critical.

That won’t happen if I quit.

Besides, if I quit, what would the pioneers think of me? They didn’t quit because someone else had a better crop or a larger homestead. They didn’t quit because conditions were too harsh or because there were too many chores to do. They didn’t quit because their family in the East didn’t believe in them. If anything, that made them push harder. They fought through everything hard, unpleasant, and ugly. They fought to make a better life for themselves. 

And so I fight. I fight for a better life for myself. Even on the days I fail or I don’t think I deserve it, I fight. 

And since I philosophically refuse to quote Christina Aguilera, I’m using this as my new affirmation instead:

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Filed Under: Life, Uncategorized Tagged With: pioneer traits, random. mental health

Bucket list: Pioneer style

March 13, 2014 by Jana 11 Comments

Bucket lists have never been my thing. I don’t like to think about death and dying and creating a bucket list makes me confront that. I don’t want to dwell on all the shit I’d like to do before I die and also, if I don’t accomplish them, how will that make me feel? Probably pretty crappy and if I’m on my deathbed, is that really something I need hanging over me? No. So I opt to leave bucket lists alone. 
someecards.com - There's a hole in my bucket list.

However, when it comes to this project, it has a shelf life. While the skills acquired and lessons learned will stick with me, and I don’t intend on leetting them go once I’m done with the project, the project itself will end. Die, if you will. And there are some items I’d like to accomplish before that happens. A pioneer project bucket list.  

This is what it looks like:

  1. Sew a complete set of cloth napkins along with a matching tablecloth. I love the idea of having a tablecloth on my dining table for so many reasons, the least of which is that my table has tile and grout that are a pain the ass to clean. It’ll also make the room like so much nicer and cleaner. Plus, the cloth napkins are less wasteful.

    Found this on Amazon. If sewing one doesn't work, this is my backup plan.
    Found this on Amazon. If sewing one doesn’t work, this is my backup plan.
  2.  Open an Etsy store. Pioneer women tended to the home but at times, they also had to help contribute financially to the family. I’m no different. I have a few ways in mind to do this and one of them is to open an Etsy store. I have the idea, the name, and the list of products to sell. Now I just have to get to work.
  3. Fill my freezer and shelves in my garage with food I canned. Not going to lie. Canning intimidates the hell out of me. I don’t know what I’m doing and I’m terrified that I’m going to ruin the food. This is even more daunting because I plan on canning what we grow (following in true pioneer fashion) and if I mess up, it’s gone. I can’t just instantly regrow more. Scary stuff.

    For more than just crafts.
    For more than just crafts.
  4. Quilt a lap blanket. I have no problem taking a shortcut and making no sew blankets (in fact, I think I prefer this. Quicker, and I can actually do it). But the pioneers used quilts. Which means I need to try to sew one. I am almost as awful with a sewing machine as I am with knitting needles which is why I’m opting for a lap quilt instead of a bed-sized one. I figure it’ll be decidedly less stressful (and more doable) if I’m focused on a smaller quilt.

Items you will not see on my list: shoot a gun. Ride a horse. Milk a cow. Raise chickens. Use an outhouse.

It’s not that I’m opposed to the concept of those things. (Well, that’s a lie. I’m opposed to outhouses and their modern brethern, the port-a-potty. Because ew. And majorly unsanitary.) It’s that I have aversions to all of them and this is honestly why I realize I’d most likely be a terrible pioneer. Then again, if I were a real pioneer, I’d have no choice but to do all of them and I’d probably get over myself. I also wouldn’t know any different. So, really, I’m thankful that I’m not living 150 years ago.

As for my bucket list, I wanted to make it projects that are achievable yet complicated enough that I’ll feel like I did something truly pioneer-esque. Because those guys did not have it easy. I want to pay homage to them as best I can without making myself uncomfortable.

Do you have a bucket list? What items are on it?

 

Filed Under: Cooking, Crafting, Home Decorating, Life, Pioneer Project, Sewing Tagged With: living the life, pioneer traits, projects

The Pioneer Kitchen Diaries: Sesame noodles with broccoli

February 24, 2014 by Jana 7 Comments

As I get deeper into this project, and the more research I do, the more I learn that there’s a pretty distinct set of pioneer values. And, as I learn more about those values (or, at the very least, create what I think are those values), the more I try to incorporate them into my daily life. Because at the end of this, I hope not only become more self-sufficient but change some of my ways of thinking.

One of the areas I’m working on a lot is food waste. Overall, my family does a decent job of not wasting food. Sure, there’s the occasional cucumber that might liquify or a container of leftover pasta sauce that sprouts some fuzzy friends or maybe a bottle of salad dressing that lives longer than it should. But for the most part, we’re good about not wasting food. When it does happen, and I have to do a major cleaning of my fridge and I throw out more food than I should, it bothers me. 

That happened this past weekend. And there was absolutely no reason it should have. And now I’m on a mission to make sure it doesn’t happen again (at least in the volume it did).

Because the pioneers didn’t have the option of food waste. They had to find a use for everything they had. There was no excess to just toss into the trash. They had what they needed, used it all in some way, and that was that. To start incorporating that into my life, I’ve established three ways to put our food to use and reduce food waste in my kitchen:

  • Leftovers
  • Composting
  • Repurposing

Recycling is its own entity and we do recycle everything we possibly can. My tree hugging, renewable energy field working husband wouldn’t have it any other way.

As far as the list, I’ll explain each one in detail in its own post (particularly the repurposing, which I know sounds strange. But think of it along the lines of popsicle stick crafts, macaroni art, or noise makers out of dried beans), and for this post, we’re going to talk about leftovers.

My family is big into leftovers. Not only does it reduce food waste but it saves money so there’s a double bonus to them. My husband and I eat leftovers for lunch most days and if there’s a big batch of something like rice, I’ll find a way to incorporate them into another recipe. That’s what I did with pasta.

I don’t know about you, but when I make pasta, I usually wind up making enough for 87 people. As we are a family of 3, we don’t need that much. So I typically find at least 2 recipes to make with a box of pasta or I leave the leftovers in the event that my daughter refuses to eat what I cook (the rule used to be if she didn’t like it, she got pb&j but she brings that for lunch every day. So now it’s pasta). Last week, however, I wanted to do something different that adding the noodles to soup or making two dishes to accompany the pasta. So I went through my trusty recipe binder (pics are forthcoming but it needs a major overhaul first) and landed on sesame noodles.

You seriously cannot go wrong with cold noodles in a peanut butter sauce.  And I had a lot of noodles.

Looks are deceiving. There's a lot of pasta in there.
Looks are deceiving. There’s a lot of pasta in there.

Then I pulled the rest of the ingredients out of the pantry.

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Pantry staples FTW!

And I mixed a few of the ingredients with the peanut butter.

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Peanut butter, soy sauce, and broth.

Then I added the rest and it looks a little gross but looks are deceiving.

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Pay no attention to the burner that needs to be cleaned.

When the sauce thickened a bit and was smooth, I poured the peanut buttery goodness over the noodles.

For more efficient mixing and less dishes, use the container the pasta already sits in.
For more efficient mixing and less dishes, use the container the pasta already sits in.

Wait about 3 hours for the noodles to chill and spoon into bowl (you can also eat directly from the container. No judging). I added broccoli for some extra nutrition and flavor. And also to not waste the broccoli in the fridge.

A bowl of peanut buttery deliciousness.
A bowl of peanut buttery deliciousness.

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Filed Under: Cooking, Life, Pioneer Project, Recipes Tagged With: food, pioneer traits, recipes

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