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It’s my life

September 8, 2014 by Jana 24 Comments

(If you sing the title like the Bon Jovi song, it's way better)

I've told you guys before that I am not above stealing borrowing a good idea. And after I saw these types of posts from Kenzie and Liz, I figured, hey? Why not do one of these for myself? Admittedly, I am not as interesting as those ladies, and pretty much every day looks the same for me (weekends, too, which is why I never do weekend recaps. I could write one and then just recycle it every Monday. Easy writing for me. Boring reading for you) but I thought it might be fun to answer the question “what exactly it is you do here?”

It's pretty simple.

First, my alarm goes off at 6:15. I check the phone repeatedly to make sure it's not a mistake and then lay in bed while my husband storms the bathroom first. I figure since he leaves the house to go to work, I can graciously give him a 5 minute head start on the day. He finishes whatever it is he does in there, I move a dog out of the way, and get up.

They're so cute when they sleep

Then I get dressed, hopefully remember to put on deodorant, walk down to the living room and do this:

Or, as I call it, sweat in a box

I want to hate Shawn T. Yet, I don't. So starting my day with him isn't so bad and I know my workout is done for the day and that's nice. Then, while still dripping with sweat, I go to my kitchen, grab a quick breakfast and pack my child's lunch. Then, I brave her room, stepping over mountains of whatever she had been playing with the night before because cleaning up requests are laughed at and ignored, and wake her up. She usually looks pretty comfortable but I don't want to go to jail for not sending her to school so I rouse her anyway.

I swear she's in there
I then spend the next hour fighting with my child, trying to make her understand that school does not, in fact, start when she wants it to but has an actual predetermined start time and we have to be there for it. I sometimes think a cattle prod would help but then think, better not. So I settle for yelling encouraging her loudly and emphatically.
We make it to school, I drop her off, run any errands I might have, then come home to my bunker. That's what I call my office. I spend the next 5-6 hours reading the internet working and alternately thinking what I do is amazing and worth the effort or hating myself for even trying and questioning every decision I make.
It's where the magic happens. And by magic, I mean self doubt.
I eat sometime during those hours, let the dogs out in the backyard so I can get my required yard time, and think about doing laundry or cleaning my house. Those last two almost never happen.
Around 3:00, I do a quick clean up of my kitchen, put the dogs on their leashes for a short walk, and we all pile into the car to get my daughter from school.
Love my co-pilots
We get to the school and, depending on the day, can wait anywhere from 10-20 minutes (30 on a really bad day) to retrieve my daughter. The parent pickup line is a special kind of hell and I do it because it is actually easier than fighting with her to get on the bus, which she hates and is terrified of. And, since I know you're wondering, this is the view from the line. I think I was particularly close up that day.
Her school is the front one.

We get home, she has a snack and watches some TV, I somehow manage to get things done but I can't tell you what because the hour between when we get home and I start making dinner is a time warp and the hour disappears. Since this is the third time I've mentioned eating, here's my kitchen. The amount of time I spend in here really is ridiculous.

On a rare clean day

We don't really have a set time for dinner because 3 nights a week (and one weekend morning/afternoon), we go here for cheer practice. The gym is up a very long, poorly paved driveway and through a gravelly, dusty parking lot. But isn't the entrance pretty?

Or, the place that takes all my money

After cheer, I wage another battle to get her in bed by a reasonable bedtime since waking her in the morning takes more patience than I have, especially if she's tired, but she takes 87 minute showers. It's a fine line between wanting her to enjoy showering and telling her to hurry the fuck up. After she's sufficiently clean and her bathroom is sufficiently flooded, we have storytime and finally, she's in bed.

Once she's asleep, I get to enjoy adult TV time. That is either exceptionally pleasant or exceptionally unpleasant, depending on the day of the week as my husband and I don't always agree on what constitutes good TV. We do agree occasionally and that's nice. Depending on the day, we shut the TV off at either 10 or 11, walk the dogs a final time, and go to bed. I typically read for about 20 minutes before I can fall asleep (sometimes longer if it's a good book). When I'm done reading, I shuffle the dogs around so I can get comfortable enough to sleep. Then I do.

Quick note: in my house, it's a race to fall asleep first because my husband snores and if I have to listen to it while I am trying to sleep, I get ragey and want to smother him. Smothering is illegal so I settle for a subtle jab in the arm and an angry “stop snoring!” It usually works and we all sleep well after that.

And that, my friends, is my exciting life. I suppose it could be worse.

What does your average day look like? Would you like to join me in a share your space linkup where we take pictures of our desks and talk about what's on it and why?

 

 

Filed Under: Family, Life Tagged With: personal life, random, work

3 tips for finding extra time

March 5, 2013 by Jana 8 Comments

This post is part of Women’s Money Week. For the round up of today’s posts on the topic of finding time and increasing productivity, visit the website.

someecards.com - I would waste so much time finding other ways to waste time if there was no Facebook.So, I have a slight obsession with the Sweet Pickles series of books. I loved them when I was a kid (this is not a joke. I would spend hours reading them over and over again) and I love them now as an adult. In fact, for this past Christmas, my parents gave me the entire collection as a gift (considering the fit I threw how upset I was when they told me they had gotten rid of my originals). It’s fun to read them now, with my daughter, and also as an adult, I get a different perspective on the lessons the books teach.

Let’s examine some of the particular lessons in my personal favorite, Rest Rabbit Rest.

Basically, the book is about Rabbit, the town banker who lives by a very strict schedule. So strict, in fact, that he essentially has a meltdown if he is even 30 seconds off from said schedule. His friends try to get him to take some time off by helping him complete his chores for the week but, in typical Rabbit fashion, he even has to make a relaxation schedule (that’s the humorous twist at the end. Sorry. Spoiler alert).  However, hidden in the book, there are some great techniques for maximizing your time and increasing productivity:

Have a schedule

Yes, Rabbit’s schedule is a bit ridiculous. It’s impossible to schedule every minute of every day because, well, life happens. We get stuck in traffic. Our kids move slower than we’d like. Doctors run late. We can’t freak out over every delay or we’d all more stressed than is healthy. But the basic idea of a schedule is a good one, particularly if you work from home. It’s good to set office hours and have some sort of plan for the day so you’re not wasting valuable work hours (or staying up until all hours of the night trying to get it done. Not that I know anything about that…).

Even more than that, create a routine or schedule that also involves healthy habits like taking a day off, exercising, spending time with friends and family, even walking the dog. Pencil that stuff in like you would a regular appointment. Try to stick to your schedule the best that you can because if you do, you’ll see your productivity increase tremendously. But don’t forget to be forgiving of yourself if you veer from the schedule. It’s really okay.

Multitask

I’m not talking multitasking in the realm of talking on the phone, answering an email, and working on a proposal all at once. We all know that engaging in that kind of multitasking is a recipe for disaster. But Rabbit had a great idea. While he was working, he had his friends talk into a tape recorder (the books are from the 70s) and then, later, when he was cooking dinner, he listened to what they had to say. That’s the kind of multitasking I’m referring to.

If you’re finding it hard to read but you spend a lot of time in a car or on a train, listen to an audiobook. If you find that social media eats away at a good part of your day, save the playing around on Pinterest or chatting on Twitter for the times you’re watching television. If you spend a great deal of time at kids’ activities, carry around a notebook or tablet and get some work done while you’re waiting (even if the other parents look at you like you’re crazy. After a while, you get over it. Seriously).

Eliminate the unimportant

The reason that Rabbit doesn’t engage in restful activities until his friends stage an intervention is that he doesn’t see them as important. While we know that to be untrue, the productivity lesson in there is that we need to get rid of activities or obligations that provide no value to us. They are nothing but a time suck and a detractor from those things that we deem important, necessary, and fulfilling.

I’ll give you a personal example. Longtime readers know that my exercise of choice is Zumba. I genuinely love it and it makes me feel good before, during, and after the class. However, there has been a particular class that I have been attending that, really, I don’t enjoy. I love the instructor as a person but her class…eh, not so much. But I kept going because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings, even though that time would have been better spent working on things that I desperately need to get done. I was falling behind on important, necessary, and crucial tasks to make someone else happy.

By not going to the class, I’ve been able to regain some of my time and get back on track with a number of to-do items. (Oh, and I’ve replaced the class with swimming, another form of exercise that I find very enjoyable.)

With the demands on our time, it’s easy to feel unproductive (especially if you read some Facebook statuses). But there are people who manage to be highly productive by following what Rabbit teaches us about time management or even having their own methods. I’m not suggesting that you compare yourself to them; just do the best that you can. Because with a little practice, a few adjustments, and a little tweaking, we can all up our productivity.

Readers, how do you manage to increase your productivity or find time to do things that are important to you?

Filed Under: Relationships, work Tagged With: personal life

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