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Never have I ever…

March 2, 2015 by Jana 29 Comments

This is a companion post to both my 40 by 40 and my list of things I have done.

Remember that drinking game where someone would say something that they’ve never done and then all the people who have done it stand up or take a drink or both? I didn’t really play it much but I’m sure there were a couple of times and it was fun so we’re going to play it today except you don’t have to tell me if you have done the things I haven’t (unless you want to) and you don’t have to drink if you have (unless you want to. Unless you’re at work. Then maybe that’s a bad idea. Unless you’re a bartender. Then drinking at work is probably okay). I’d prefer if you didn’t judge me on the things I haven’t done but I can’t stop you so try not to judge me too much.

Alrighty then.

never

  • Gotten a tattoo
  • Watched an Indiana Jones movie
  • Drank Mountain Dew (it looks like something someone in a comic book would fall into and come out a supervillian)
  • Changed a tire by myself
  • Been arrested (or thrown in the drunk tank)
  • Stayed awake for 24 straight hours
  • Read the Harry Potter books (or Twilight or Divergent)
  • Had short hair
  • Gotten a massage
  • Attended a professional basketball game
  • Been on a cruise
  • Played Cards Against Humanity (which I do realize is a crime against humanity)
  • Watched an episode of The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Real Housewives of Anywhere, or Big Brother
  • Eaten a Big Mac
  • Gone horseback riding (clarification: because I am TERRIFIED of horses)
  • Cooked on a barbecue (I have eaten at a barbecue. I have never cooked on the actual grill because, like horses, I am terrified of them)

Bonus: I’ve never whistled because I can’t.

That’s all I can think of right now. I’m sure there’s more, particularly in the never watched or read and when I think of them, I’ll write them down and then maybe I’ll do a part 2.

Your turn. What are some things you’ve never done?

 

 

 

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This week in…:Volume 5

February 27, 2015 by Jana 13 Comments

this week

This week in job hunting…I found a job that would be perfect for me. As in, if I had to pick a dream job that isn’t writing novels, it would be this job. Please cross your fingers that they like me and want to hire me. I need to go back to work. I want to go back to work.

This week in TV watching…Au revoir, Parks and Rec. I will miss you so, so much. But I am excited for that new show American Crime. It’s definitely my kind of criminal justice nerd show and it has Regina King in it. I love her.

This week in reading…I finished Caroline Kepnes’s You. Hands down the most fucked up book I have ever read and I couldn’t pick up another book for the rest of the day once I finished it. Which is probably why An Abundance of Katherines, by my beloved John Green, is not quite doing it for me. It’s too…I don’t know, light, maybe? to read after such an intense book. I mean, it should be a nice balance to You but if it doesn’t grab me in the next 50 pages or so, it’s going to have to go. Especially with The Girl on the Train beckoning me.

This week in being a cheer mom…someone found my blog by Googling the term “I hate having time and money so my daughter cheers” and holy hell, if that isn’t true. I won’t rant about my daughter’s insane practice schedule or the 4:00 AM wake up calls for competitions if we don’t spend the night in a hotel or the money that disappears from our checking account on a regular basis or anything like that because at least the child is happy and active, right? RIGHT?!

This week in cooking…since my normal Sunday food prep has been hijacked by cheerleading, I’ve been trying to do some throughout the week and hope it lasts. Yesterday, I made low carb egg muffins. Guys! So good. I need to tweak the recipe a bit before I share the whole thing but let’s say it involves onions, spinach, and pepper jack cheese. Just delicious.

This week in supporting others…My good friend Tonya is a terrific blogger, aspiring ukulele player, and a video editor. As part of her blog, Budget and the Beach, she launched Budget and the Beach TV where she writes, directs, stars in, edits, and produces videos. They’re fantastic and creative but they’re expensive to do and she’s launched a crowdfunding campaign to help her make them. Now, if you know me, you know I cannot stand the constant barrage of funding requests and crowdfunding so this is a departure from basically everything I believe in but I love Tonya and she’s awesome and I want to help her.

This week in supporting others, part 2…Did you guys read Kay’s post on wearing dreadlocks? No? Then you need to. And when you’re done, share it with everyone you know. She makes such an important statement that needs to be heard.

This week in making me laugh…funny-Kermit-dissection-children-sectionbingotherapist

 

Have a great weekend, everyone! Hope you all have something fun or relaxing planned!

 

 

 

 

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All these things that I’ve done

February 23, 2015 by Jana 32 Comments

A special thank you to The Killers for today’s post title as I have had this song stuck in my head for days.

When I wrote my 40 by 40, I struggled a bit with coming up with a list because, thus far, I’ve been fortunate and I have done, seen, and been to a good number of places. Don’t be mistaken, there’s still a ton left to do and see and try but I have a pretty good list going and, as part of my Choose Your Own Adventure Challenge, I said I’d write it down. So I did. And, as proof and accountability and all that jazz, I’m sharing it with you guys. 37 things for 37 years I’ve been alive.

Oh, sorry for the lack of pictures but we’ve been living in our house for 18 months and for the life of me, I still cannot find my photo albums. But I assure you, I’m not lying. If I were, this list would be way more interesting.

37 years

  1. Traveled to France and saw all the things including the Louvre, the Notre Dame, L’Arc de Triomphe, Carcassone, Nice, the Palace of Versailles, and I spent a night on one of those overnight train things
  2. Stood on a glacier (and drank water from said glacier)
  3. Slept on a Native American reservation
  4. Been published (in a compilation with other writers, in an eBook about writer’s block. Not a novel)
  5. Had a stereotypical spring break in Cancun
  6. Been to both the East and West parts of Canada. Not the middle. (Is there even anything in the middle?)
  7. Traveled to a number of islands including Aruba, the Bahamas, and Jamaica
  8. Participated in the Conch Republic Independence Day celebrations, including the mock Navy battle in the harbor
  9. Speaking of Key West, I’ve also seen the sunset at Mallory Square
  10. Ridden in a 1954 Bentley
  11. Visited the Grand Canyon
  12. And Niagara Falls
  13. Went white water rafting on the Snake River
  14. Camped at Yellowstone and Yosemite
  15. Met a celebrity
  16. Interviewed a celebrity
  17. Been an extra on a TV show (Romper Room)
  18. Seen Broadway shows
  19. Visited all the major attractions in California including Alcatraz, Lombard Street, the San Diego Zoo, and Hearst Castle
  20. Attended a MLB playoff game
  21. Won a beer pong tournament
  22. Hiked in Bryce Canyon
  23. Gotten my Master’s degree (I used to be smart)
  24. Learned another language
  25. Given a speech in public
  26. Quit a job I hated
  27. Made pie from scratch, including the crust
  28. Performed a Zumba routine on stage
  29. Cooked Thanksgiving dinner by myself
  30. Attended TV show tapings
  31. Seen my favorite band in concert (4 times!)
  32. Visited Disney World and Disney Land
  33. Been to Bourbon Street (aka the most disgusting street in all the land)
  34. Been to a music festival
  35. Sat in club box seats at an NFL and MLB game
  36. Played with and fed penguins
  37. Had a pinup photo shoot (these pictures have never, nor will they ever, see the light of day)

Looking at the list, I’m pretty proud of what I’ve done so far and I’m so excited for what’s still to come. Should be a fun few years until I’m 40 and then beyond.

Now you go. Tell me some of the things you’ve done!

 

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Nothing to do when you’re locked into vacancy? Here’s some ideas.

February 17, 2015 by Jana 27 Comments

I’m pretty sure those of you who live in warm climates are sick of hearing about this but here in the Northeast, it’s motherfucking cold. Not like the cold in a movie theater (seriously, why do they do that?) or a conference room during a business meeting (again, why do they do that?) but so cold your fingers and nose and ears burn at even the thought of going outside, 45 layers won’t keep you warm enough, and your heater is slowly approaching temperatures only found at the equator.

I guess what I’m saying is that it’s Canada cold. Or Alaska cold. Or Midwest prairie cold.

It completely sucks and kudos to those who live in places where it’s regularly like this.

Anyway, because it’s turn your tears to icicles cold in my part of the world, I’ve been stuck inside. Which doesn’t really bother me because I’m as close to a hermit as you can get without people being worried but still, after awhile, even I contemplate going outside. Which I then think better of because frozen tundra. And then I’m left wondering, after 4 straight days with close to no hope of leaving any time soon, what do I do next?

So I sat down to make a list. Because of course I did. Because I love lists. And since I love to share my lists, here’s what I came up with of some of the things to do when you’re locked into vacancy:

    • Read. Did you doubt this would be first? There is nothing better to do than read. And if you’re stuck in the house, the best way to escape is through a book. This is the perfect time to tackle the stack of unread books on your nightstand, pour through the dozens of links and blog posts you’ve been hoarding saving, dive into that extra long book you’ve been keeping for the day you can finally get to it, plow through the stack of magazines or clean up your eReader. There’s never any shortage of reading materials. And this can keep you busy for hours and hours. Especially if you combine it with naps.
    • Watch TV. I know those who are adamant that TV is a waste of time will disagree with me but I believe you can still be productive even with the television on. When you’re in the house, why not go through your DVR’d shows, start that show on Netflix you’ve been meaning to check out (here’s a helpful list if you need suggestions), or take some time to watch a classic movie or rewatch one of your favorites. Like books, TV and movies can be a good escape.

    • Be creative. Tired of reading and watching TV? I get it. It happens. And when it does, why not take an hour or so to color or paint a picture, write a short story or blog post, knit or crochet, try a new makeup look or hairstyle, sew, put together a scrapbook page, choreograph a dance, cook a new recipe, have a whole conversation in movie lines or song titles/lyrics, anything else you can think of that will get your creativity flowing and keep you busy. Keeping your mind occupied is a surefire way to stave off boredom and forget that you’re confined to your home.
    • Move. I mean, not your home or possessions but your body. Spending all that time on the couch or in a chair, while comfortable, can sometimes make your cranky and achy and kind of fussy. I know it can for me. So, when that happens, why not take 30 minutes to exercise? You can do a workout DVD, following along to a YouTube video, find an at-home workout on Pinterest, have a dance party or even make up your own. Just get yourself moving a little bit. It’ll help stave off boredom, keep your mood lifted, and you won’t feel like a big sluggish lump. And then you’ll also feel less guilty about the 230436 cookies you ate because your winter weight is helping to keep you warm, dammit. PSA: don’t forget to do this with your pets as well, especially if you have dogs. They’re most likely used to a couple of daily walks and when it’s this cold, they can’t get that activity either. Try playing a game of fetch with them indoors, if you have the space or just find some way to help them burn off some energy.

    • Spend time with your family. If you live with people, why not use your home confinement as a way to bond with them? You can have a family game night, do Mad Libs, have actual conversations, tell stories, take some of the creativity you exercised earlier and have a showcase (talent show, art gallery, etc) where you all get dressed up and pretend it’s fancier than it actually is, sit down to a meal together, or whatever it is that your family likes to do. If you live alone, you can still connect with your family and friends via all the available methods like Facetime and text and phone calls. Just stay connected. Or, if you hate your family, you can figure out all the ways you can creatively avoid them.
    • Plan. One way I get out of my own head and away from the misery of subzero temperatures is to plan all the fun things I’ll do when it’s warmer. I like to plan our spring and summer day trips and vacations, check out which baseball games I’ll buy tickets to, who I want to be sure we visit, what we’re going to do to the outside of the house (flower beds and outside lighting and the garden and what our patio is going to look like once we build it) and doing some online window shopping for spring and summer clothes. Thinking about the warmer weather, and indulging my fantasies about it, makes the ice age I’m living in that much more bearable.
    • Chores. Okay, so this is last on the list for a reason. Chores suck. But if you’re stuck inside, this is a great time to dust and vacuum and do laundry and pay bills and sort the junk mail and put away the dishes and organize the pantry and write the grocery list and menu plan and go through your closets and all the other things we wish we had time to do but other things are more fun to do when you have free time. This is a great time to get this stuff done and not have them hanging over your head so when the weather improves and you finally escape your imprisonment, you won’t feel guilty doing everything else.

I’m curious–what do you guys do when you’re stuck in the house with no end in sight?

 

 

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My 40 by 40: The official list

February 11, 2015 by Jana 41 Comments

As one of my goals for the Choose Your Own Adventure February theme of complete, I decided I would finally complete my 40 by 40 list. I mean, every day is a day closer I am to 40 and that’s just one less day to work on it (I’m within spitting distance, if spitting distance is just over 2 years) and since the clock is ticking, I got my shit together and created the list.

I really struggled with what to put on it because if I’m being totally honest, I am not a daredevil. I have no less than zero interest in skydiving, bungee jumping, climbing a mountain, riding a motorcycle, or anything that might maim me. Except parasailing but I feel like I’m too fat to do that. In fact, I have a whole separate list devoted to weird reasons I want to lose weight and that’s one that’s on it (let me know if you want that list. I’m happy to share. Meh. Maybe I’ll share it anyway. It’s pretty amusing).

Anyway.

When you’re not thrill seeking, or athletic, and have zero aspirations to achieve either of those, rounding out the list is pretty difficult. I managed to do it, though! Here’s what it looks like in no particular order and no specific grouping (although I probably should categorize them at some point for easier tracking):

 

 

 

40 by 40

  1. Publish a book
  2. Visit the UK
  3. Get to my ideal weight (one that I’ve decided)
  4. Learn French
  5. Visit Salem, MA
  6. Take a cross country drive (preferably in a convertible)
  7. Volunteer somewhere meaningful to me
  8. Visit the Cherry Blossom Festival in Washington DC
  9. Attend an art gallery show
  10. See Jimmy Fallon live
  11. Read through the Bible
  12. Take a dance class
  13. Write a screenplay (not to have it produced. Just to have it written)
  14. Vacation in Myrtle Beach, SC
  15. Sew an apron or blanket. Maybe both.
  16. Watch the AFI top 100 movies list (the 66 I have not yet seen)
  17. Go to a drive-in theater
  18. Relearn how to play an instrument (I used to play piano and guitar)
  19. Stay in a log cabin
  20. Go to an MLB All Star game or World Series game
  21. Sit in on a Supreme Court hearing
  22. Be debt free (again)
  23. Eat a farm to table restaurant
  24. Swim with dolphins
  25. Host a murder mystery party
  26. Give $100 tip to a server
  27. Adopt a family at Christmas
  28. Make candy from scratch
  29. Get a hot stone massage (this a big deal for me as I hate massages)
  30. Go to the top of the Empire State Building
  31. Be an extra in a movie
  32. Have a Twitter conversation with a celebrity (that lasts longer than a one tweet reply to something I said)
  33. Have a blog post go viral
  34. Read a classic novel (yes, Kristen, I will consider Pride and Prejudice)
  35. Read a book of poetry
  36. See a nonmusical Broadway show
  37. Pay for a stranger’s dinner in a restaurant
  38. Take a cooking class
  39. Visit the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
  40. Visit MLB Hall of Fame

Bonus: speak in public or at a conference for longer than 2 minutes

I have approximately 52 months to get this all done. Some task will be easier to complete than others but it averages out to roughly one activity per month, alloting time to budget, plan and make necessary arrangements for the items that involve travel or learning a skill but overall, it’s a completely realistic list. I aimed high but not so high it’s impossible.

I’m excited to get started. This should be a fun adventure. Even if turning 40 scares the shit out of me.

Do you have a list like this? If so, what did you put on it? Have you done any of these? What should I do first?

 

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