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The quick fix won’t solve the problem. You will.

July 5, 2013 by Jana 10 Comments

A few days ago, I was talking to a friend of mine. She mentioned that she had seen an advertisement or something on Facebook for a product that can help you lose a whole lot of weight ridiculously quick. She seemed intrigued. I wasn't interested. The product seemed like a) a scam and b) nothing but a quick fix. And I am not a fan of the quick fix. I prefer to do things the hard way, working towards a goal through effort and committment, relishing in both victories and setbacks. Also because maybe I hate myself a little.

Because when it all comes down to it, a quick fix doesn't change behavior. And if you don't change the behavior, you'll be right back in the same situation after the fix is gone. And that is not something that appeals to me.

Let's look at this situation as an example: a single 30 year old woman with no dependents–just a dog–finds herself in over $10K of credit card debt because maybe she has a crazy shopping addiction that's so bad she can't even remember buying half of what she has. Stressed about money, she tells her mom that she's deep in debt (with this as her only debt) and the mother, rather than sympathizing or pointing her adult child in the direction of resources to get herself back on track pays. Off. The. Entire. Amount.

What do you think happened next? Yup. The woman wound up back in credit card debt. Because she didn't have to change any habits or learn new behaviors that would prevent it from happening again. The problem just went away with a quick fix. There was no opportunity for her to learn…well, anything. And given her personal situation, it would have been the perfect time for her to learn to budget. Or not shop as a sport. Or pay attention to the price of things. Or how to cook and bring lunch from home instead of ordering in from expensive NYC take-out places. Or adjust any number of the dozens of bad financial habits that put her in credit card debt. Twice.

The hardest part about watching this unfold is that she tuned out most practical advice. Until she met her now-husband and they went through some horrible financial situations together. That shocked her into reality and she realized no rapid solution could turn it around. Just good old fashioned dedication and work. And although she still shops for sport, she's way more conscious of what, when, and how much she spends (because her husband took away her credit cards so she's learning to pay with cash. Major behavioral change there). Also she downsized many of her things. Which is another huge step and major behavioral victory.

As a result, she's out of debt again which is awesome and I am so proud of her. I'm confident it won't happen a third time because working through her debt repayment the second time took actual dedication and effort. She made necessary habitual changes. She remembers how much it sucked to pay it off. She learned the necessary lessons that the quick fix couldn't teach her.

This story is just one in a sea of stories explaining why a quick fix almost never works. Not only do they leave you looking for the next one and send you into a very dark cycle, but in order to affect change in the long run, you have to put in effort. Make changes. Learn new habits and ways of thinking. Adjust behaviors. Realize that the work is worth it because while the quick fix solves the problem temporarily, it doesn't make it go away.

And I don't know about you, but I'd like my problems to go away permanently. Not just for a weekend.

 

Filed Under: Money Motivation, money tips

Roth IRAs: A beginner’s guide

June 21, 2013 by Jana 8 Comments

Today’s post comes from another BHB mentee, Pat Murphy, the publisher of Feeling Financial. Pat is a personal finance blogger who focuses on how we make important financial decisions. His website discusses personal finance topics while examining how our thoughts and personality affect our behavior.

roth-ira-11It’s always nice to have options. I like being able to choose what I get, and I especially like having the ability to change my mind about something later. But in some areas (like planning for retirement), you just have to commit get started, because building up a nest egg is best done over the course of many years.

Fortunately, there is a way to save for retirement while keeping some of your options open. A Roth IRA lets you enjoy the tax benefits you get in a retirement account, while allowing you to use the money for something else (such as education funding or whatever else happens to come up).

What is a Roth IRA?

First, a few boring facts about Roth IRAs, which might help you figure out if the account makes sense for you. A Roth IRA is a type of individual retirement account (that’s where the “IRA” comes from). These accounts are “individual” because they’re not linked to your employer like a 401k is, and that means you have full control over what happens with the account. (Jana’s note: The Roth IRA is named for Delaware Senator Bill Roth. He also has a bridge named after him. You’re welcome).

Like most retirement accounts, you’re supposed to leave the money in your Roth IRA until “retirement age,” which the IRS likes to call age 59.5. But Roth IRAs make it easier to get to your money early without hefty tax penalties (we’ll talk about that in a minute). You also get the same tax benefit you get from almost any other retirement account: any money you earn in the account (from interest, dividends, or capital gains) is not reported to the IRS every year and taxed. Instead, you keep 100% of the earnings in your account and reinvest them for even more growth.

Roth IRAs are often called “after-tax” IRAs. The money you put in the account doesn’t help you on your tax return this year (on the other hand, if you use a Traditional IRA, you might be able to get a deduction and reduce this year’s tax bill). While that may seem like a drawback of Roth IRAs, the benefit is that you’ll be able to take money out of the account without paying taxes (with a Traditional IRA,you’ll have to pay income tax on all of the pre-tax money you pull out of the account – plus earnings – no matter how old you are). When you pull money out of your Roth account, assuming you follow all of the rules, you’ll get to spend all of that money – you won’t have to come up with any extra to pay taxes.

The Flexibility

We just went over some fairly complicated rules, so you may be thinking that a Roth IRA sounds anything but flexible. Here’s the gist of what the Roth IRA offers: you can take your contributions back out of the account at any time without taxes or penalties. The money you contributed was all after-tax money, so they can’t tax you again when you take it back out.

That’s a nice feature for an account with otherwise powerful tax benefits. You get to change your mind if you decide that you need that money elsewhere. Just keep good records of how much you’ve contributed to your Roth, and you’ll know how much you can get back out if you need to.

The tricky part is that you get to take your own contributions back,but you can’t get to the earnings on your contributions unless you follow a few rules (or unless you’re willing to pay taxes and penalties). Those rules require that you have had the money in your Roth for at least 5 years, and that you wait until you’re at least
59.5 years old. There are a few other details, but the important things to remember are age 59.5 and 5 years.

Ways to Use a Roth IRA

Of course, Roth IRAs are designed with retirement in mind. And that’s one great way to use them. Save some money each year (currently you can contribute up to $5,500 per year, plus an additional $1,000 if you’re over 50 years old), and you’ll have a nice chunk of tax-free money waiting for you in your golden years.

You can also use a Roth IRA for other goals. For example, you might use a Roth to save money that is earmarked for a child’s education. But if it turns out that you don’t need the money (because your child is smart, like her parents, and gets a scholarship) you can just leave it in the IRA and it’ll be there when you retire – growing tax free. Or, if your money is invested conservatively, you can even think of your Roth IRA as a “backup” emergency fund (but it’s really best to have your primary emergency fund in a bank account).

What happens if you spend all of the money in your Roth IRA, including the earnings? If you’re under the age of 59.5 or you haven’t had the money in your Roth for 5 years, you’ll have to pay income tax on the earnings portion of your withdrawal. You might also have to pay an additional penalty tax of 10% of your earnings. However, there are a few exceptions to the penalty tax (such as higher education expenses for you or a family member, or substantial medical expenses). Unfortunately, you can’t get around the income tax if you take an early distribution.

How to Open a Roth IRA

If you don’t have a Roth IRA, they’re easy to open. Any bank, credit union, online brokerage, or financial planner can help you open one. A Roth is just a type of account with certain tax characteristics, but it can hold almost any kind of investment you want. (Jana’s note: if you open one and are really bad about remember to actually set foot in the bank to make a deposit into the account like a certain unnamed personal finance blogger who I don’t want to embarrass, check to make sure you can do an automatic deposit. If you can, sign up for that).

Keep an eye on the income rules if you’re thinking of contributing to a Roth IRA. You have to earn enough to contribute, but if you make too much you aren’t allowed to contribute at all. In 2013, you must have a
modified Adjusted Gross Income (AGI) below $188,000 if you’re married and filing jointly (or $127,000 if you’re single). These things can be complicated when you’re doing it for the first time, so just use this post as a starting point. Talk to your tax preparer before you do anything, and read through all of your account opening paperwork carefully so that your Roth becomes a flexible and powerful tool – not a source of anguish.

Now that you know the basics, think of some of your goals and whether or not a Roth IRA can help you reach them. If you’re not really sure what your goals are yet, maybe the flexibility of Roth will come in especially handy.

Filed Under: Guest posts, money tips

Getting financially educated on a tight budget

June 19, 2013 by Jana 13 Comments

Pinch hitting for me today is BHB mentee Anton Ivanov, an aspiring financial writer, a successful investor and a zealous entrepreneur. He is extremely passionate about helping others become financially independent and shares his financial knowledge at Dreams Cash True. You can follow his updates on Twitter, RSS or Facebook. 

money educationChances are you came to this blog in hopes of learning how to better manage your finances (and to have some fun along the way!)(Jana’s note: emphasis on fun. Fun comes first. Learning is tucked inside the fun. I’m clever like that). Many of us understand the importance of money and the need to get financially educated. Unfortunately, finance is barely taught in public schools. It’s possible to graduate high school and even college without learning much about making smart financial decisions.

A lack of a financial education can be a recipe for disaster because money management skills are essential for a successful life. At the same time, pursing a college education in business or finance can be expensive! Fortunately, there are 4 great ways to get a financial education without running your wallet dry: the internet, television, books and free classes.

The Internet

Believe it or not, but the internet is not just for checking Facebook 20 times a day and watching funny cat videos (Jana’s note: It’s not. Seriously. Reading Buzz Feed comes way before Facebook and cat videos). It’s a wonderful place to get financial knowledge for free (not counting your Internet bill, which you already pay anyway).

Finance blogs are a great start – they offer many personal finance and investing tips from people just like you. With so many blogs out there, you are sure to find an author who writes about the exact same financial problems you are facing. Plus, they can be both entertaining and educational to read.

There are many other websites that offer tons of free finance knowledge. Huge knowledge databases, such as Investopedia, offer free articles, dictionaries, various calculators and tools. Or you may want to check out some financial forums if you prefer to interact and discuss things with others.

Good Ol’ TV

Yes, it may be hard to change the channel when your favorite TV show is on. But since many of us spend so much time in front of the TV anyway, why not make that time at least a little productive?

There are many TV programs and channels that will teach you about money. They are likely already included in your cable plan and won’t cost you a penny. Check your TV guide for Mad Money and Squawk Box on CNBC, Taking Stock on Bloomberg TV or watch CNN and Fox for regular business and finance news (Jana’s note: I prefer quality programming like any show hosted by Gail Vaz-Oxlade or Extreme Couponing on TLC. Only high brow stuff for this chick).

Books

I like to take a break from staring at computer and television screens once in a while, and maybe you do as well. A great pastime is reading books – not only can it relieve stress, but it can teach you everything you ever wanted to know about money and finance.

There are many awesome finance books that cover a wide range of topics. It doesn’t matter if you a financial expert or a complete beginner – you are guaranteed to find a book that will be useful to you. You can buy most paperback editions for less than $20, get them even cheaper for e-book readers, or get them free from your local library. You can find a great list of finance books to start with here.

Free Classes

While it’s not common, some colleges, unemployment centers and non-profit organizations offer free finance classes. They can be a perfect opportunity if you prefer a traditional classroom setting and like to interact with other students (Jana’s note: some offer online classes as well. We have a nonprofit in my state that has both traditional classes and online ones but the online classes aren’t as heavily advertised. You have to carefully read the booklet and, ironically enough, the website, to find that out).

Check the websites of your local colleges, universities, unemployment centers or other non-profit organizations for any upcoming classes. They tend to fill up quickly, so register early! Even though you won’t be paying tuition, you may have to buy the textbooks, so be sure to read the details in the course description.

And there you have it! Forget expensive college degrees – next time you are looking for some financial wisdom, you know where to find it.

Filed Under: Guest posts, money tips

Succeed like a 6 year old

June 10, 2013 by Jana 7 Comments

A few weeks ago, I wrote a handy guide of tips for sucking at life. I hope you bookmarked it, shared it, or gave it to a friend with a dream. A lifelong dream that, with hard work, time, and effort, is entirely possible to achieve. A lifelong dream that instead of flourishing, rots because she insists on doing nothing but sit on her couch, spending hours watching TV or browsing Facebook, making excuses for why she simply cannot do any of the work required to reach her goal. A lifelong dream that’s dies because she’d rather wallow in unhappiness and misery and the sense of feeling unfulfilled than spend even 30 minutes per week working on her dream.

I wrote that guide for people like your friend because I wanted her to realize that it’s not the world’s fault she hasn’t succeeded. I wanted her to know it’s her fault. But then I realized that pointing out her shortcomings, while somewhat helpful, is only half the story. People like your friend need the other half; they need to know what rules to follow to be successful. So I decided to help them out once again (because I’m nice like that).

This time, I’ve compiled a list of steps/rules/whatever that will point them in the right direction. Things that are so simple even my 6 year old knows them.

success

Filed Under: Money, Money Motivation, money tips

Stop asking for money!: 4 questions for managing charity exhaustion

June 7, 2013 by Jana 7 Comments

Shit like this drives me crazy, too.
Shit like this drives me crazy, too.

A few weeks ago, I attempted to do an online fundraiser for two organizations that I felt were deserving: The Brooke Jackman Foundation and The Red Cross. Without going into too much detail, I’ll just say this: It tanked. Badly.

Once I realized that the fundraiser flopped, I pulled it from DMS and have spent many hours trying to figure out what went wrong. I have many ideas. But one idea that I keep coming back to is the fact that most people, myself included, are exhausted from being asked for money. After all, it’s everywhere. At your kids’ schools. At your religious institution of choice. In front of the supermarket. At the airport. At the checkout line at pretty much every store you ever buy anything from. At the gym. On Facebook.

The donation invasion is everywhere. You can’t escape it.

I wrote about a similar topic before, how the charity creep can affect your holidays, but this is something broader. This is the fact that it’s almost impossible to conduct normal, mundane, routine acts of life (like driving a car or buying shampoo) without being inundated with requests for money. And, if you’re like me, I don’t care about having my name written on a shoe or a heart or a four leaf clover and having it proudly displayed for all the world to see. What I do care about is to not being asked for money everywhere I go and then looked at like a total piece of shit when I say no.

I’m pretty sure I’m not alone.

However, realizing that I can only control my actions and not the actions of others, here’s a few I ask to make sure that I don’t respond affirmatively to every request for money:

  • Is it something I’m going to use anyway? Alex’s Lemonade Stand is a great example of this. With so many product lines donating a portion of their sales to the organization, I will spend a few extra cents to buy a product that supports it. I do this particularly with water ice (like Italian ice, only not as good). Our local chain has a lemonade flavor every summer that’s on the menu to raise money for Alex’s Lemonade Stand. So, if my daughter wants lemon, that’s the flavor I buy her.  She’s getting the water ice anyway; might as well do a bit of good with the purchase.
  • Will I get something out of it? I’ll contribute a few dollars to a raffle, particularly if there’s a chance I can win a decent prize. I’ll buy entry into a walkathon or Zumbathon because I’ll get to exercise and network at the same time. I’ll buy tickets to an event because I know I’ll have some fun.  It may sound selfish, but if I can’t see where my money’s going or how it’s being used, I want to get something out of my contribution. Remember that conversation between Joey and Phoebe on Friends about how there are no selfless good deeds? Yeah, I agree with Joey.
  • Is it a cause I believe in? It’s hard to say that one cause is more important or more valuable than another. But if I were to give a dollar or two to every cause that I’m asked to help, the charitable giving line item in my budget would equal that of my mortgage.  I can’t afford that. Maybe one day, but not this day. So to keep my charitable giving at a level I can afford, I have to assess if the cause is something I believe in or if the organization is one that I support (because there are a number or shady charities out there).
  • How do they solicit my money? Are they walking up and down the street with a boot, going up to car windows and sticking the boot in the driver’s face? Are they bugging me in the middle of dinner (try reading that sentence without singing Alanis Morissette), pretending we’re BFFs, asking me for cash? Is the unenthusiastic cashier asking me to tack on an extra dollar or two to my purchase? Are they sending me an email or a mailing explaining specifically what they’re raising money for? Is there a website I can use to make an anonymous donation? The tactics behind how money is solicited makes a huge difference in whether or not I’m going to donate.

Please don’t get me wrong. I fully support charitable giving and do so when I can via a means (and an amount) convenient to me. I just don’t appreciate when I’m guilted into giving or made to feel like I’m scum because I choose to take my donations elsewhere.

However, sometimes there are generous people out there who want to give you stuff and you don’t have to spend a ton of money. You just have to do something simple (such as liking DMS on Facebook) in order to gain entry into a raffle that could net you an iPad mini . That’s what Jackie at The Debt Myth is doing to celebrate the launch of her updated Pay Off Debt app (you could win a copy of this, too).  To enter the contest, just follow the directions below:

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