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This week in…:First of 2016

January 8, 2016 by Jana 18 Comments

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This post his post coming to you straiget from my iPhone as I patiently wait for my daughter to finish cheer practice.

  • Finished book #1 for Erin’s challenge (Mothers, Tell Your Daughters by Bonnie Jo Campbell), another book of short stories and a book for work. Started A Prayer for Owen Meany and reserved two more. Full books recap this Tuesday for Show Us Your Books.
  • Watched the return of American Crime. Contemplating researching Making a Murderer. Still need to finish Narcos and Master of None. 
  • Made several delicious dishes. Most specifically, this one for sweet and sticky chicken. It’s grain free and mostly Paleo but those who are skeptical, don’t be. The husband has asked me to make 90 pounds of it. It’s that good.
  • Read almost nothing on the Internet that isn’t the Making a Murderer rabbit hole. I have never seen a miscarriage of justice quite like this case. Even if you think they’re guilty, you cannot say that the questioning of Brandon was at all ethical and the police didn’t mishandle the evidence and that the trial wasn’t ridiculous and that there’s a bit of lying and covering up going on somewhere.
  • Got way too excited that Mike Piazza chose to go into the Hall of Fame as a Met. This doesn’t quite forgive Daniel Murphy for signing with the Nationals, but I’ll take it.
  • Witnessed some neighborhood drama. Since we’re third parties I won’t discuss details but I have a feeling it’s going to get very ugly. I don’t like that.
  • Won at adulting by doing 7 loads of laundry, start to finish, all in the same day.
  • Became overwhelmed with choices regarding what bookish gear to buy with some of my Christmas money. There’s so much of it, you guys. HOW DO I CHOOSE?!
  • Laughed at these:

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That’s all for the week. Relaxing, no stress weekend ahead. Hope it’s the same for you!

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All the 2016 to-dos

January 5, 2016 by Jana 22 Comments

I think there might be something wrong with me.

I’m pretty sure I’m the only person who doesn’t look at the new year as 365 days filled with opportunity and hope and achievement. Nope, I look at it as 365 days of overwhelming because I truly don’t know what I even want to do anymore. Setting goals used to be so fucking easy. Now? Too hard. So I wind up not setting them and then feel like I’ve failed at life at the end of the year because upon reflection, I feel like I did nothing (even if I did do something. Like last year. I feel like I did nothing to advance my career but then I remembered that I got a job in a brand new field. That’s something, right?). It’s like my perfectionist tendencies get in the way and then I downplay what I did accomplish because it’s just not good enough.

See? I told you something was wrong with me.

I want to make a declaration that this year will be different but I know me. I’ll declare it and then fuck it up. So instead, I’m going to make more of a checklist. I do well with to-dos. And maybe if I approach my goals as a to-do list rather than goals, I’ll actually do them. That would help me continue with the big shift I’ve been making (as in, I AM someone who accomplishes what she says she’ll do). So here’s what I’ve got:

Jana’s 2016 To-Do list

  • Finish the damn book already. It’s 2/3 of the way there. I know how to edit. I know where I want it to end. I need to just sit down and write all the words.
  • Get back into regular exercising. I used to be someone who worked out regularly. Now I’m not. My mental health needs me to workout. Plus, if I don’t, the 10k the husband and I plan to walk later in the year is going to suck.
  • Restart freelancing. I used to freelance for a bunch of websites. Then I went all crazy (literally. It’s when I had my breakdown followed by my major depression episode) and quit everything. I like money. I like writing. I should combine the two again.
  • Launch my books project. Yeah, I’ll tell you guys about that when it’s ready. But right now I need to find a good web designer and remember to contact my co-host and get shit off the ground.
  • Redesign this here blog of mine. It’s getting old and needs a face lift.
  • Leverage social media to help with said side project and freelancing (and full-time job). There is a wealth of information and a number of people out there who can help me. I know how to connect with them and I have the means to do it. I just need to actually do it.
  • Complete my reading challenges. Erin’s book challenge. My personal reading challenge. My Goodreads goal (75. I wanted to do 80 or 85 but there are some long ass books on my TBR this year and I refuse to feel pressured not to read them simply to achieve an arbitrary number on Goodreads).
  • Travel. On the books already: Phoenix and Boston. Possibilities: Chicago, Los Angeles, San Diego. Plus, I want to do more things locally and regionally. And visit with some friends who are not too far away, even if it’s for a day.
  • Find a good beige nail polish color. I’ve been struggling with this one for years. Sometimes my nails just look terrible and I don’t want to use a color and draw attention to their atrociousness but I feel incomplete without nail polish on so I figure a nude/beige color will help in such a situation. Any suggestions?

I wanted to set some housekeeping/adulting goals like “do loads of laundry from start to finish on the same day” and “dust regularly” and “get up earlier” and “be craftier” and “give more to charity” and “volunteer more” but then I thought…nah. My house isn’t that dirty and I’m really okay with my bedtime/wake up time and I’m going with my charitable giving and volunteering and I’m a pretty high functioning adult so I left all that out. Why try to be something I’m not?

Also not on the list? A specific weight loss goal. Weight loss is a funny thing and while I’m working on it, I feel that if I say “I’m going to lose 40 pounds this year”, that’s just setting myself up to fail because what if I don’t? What if I only lose 35? Will that 5 pound difference negate all my hard work? In my head, it probably will. So I’m just going to say that my weight loss is a work in progress and I’ll take what I can get each week.

That’s it. That’s my list. Here’s hoping I can check them all off (sorry. I WILL check them all off)!

Did you set goals for the year? Do you have a word of the year? Any tricks for accomplishing your goals?

 

 

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This week in…: Volume 40 because 40 is a nice round number

December 18, 2015 by Jana 16 Comments

this week

Picked up Fortune Smiles, Refund: Stories, and Me After You (finally!). Finished Infinite Home and 4 books for work. Full review on Infinite Home in January’s Show Us Your Books (January 12, 2016) but suffice it to say, it will not be on my list of yearly favorites that’s coming to you on December 29th for the bonus edition of Show Us Your Books. And congrats to Heather on winning our holiday giveaway!

Started watching Master of None and Narcos. I love Netflix’s programming.

Finished Christmas shopping, including the child’s big gift, which is a trip to Boston and the surrounding areas. She is fascinated OBSESSED with Massachusetts so instead of giving her more toys she doesn’t need or will only play with for 2 days, we’re spending the money on a trip to somewhere she desperately wants to go. Boston area friends, any recommendations on relatively reasonably priced places to stay?

Took inventory of my fall projects list. I completed 4/10. Which is shameful. It was going to be its own post but what a waste of words.

I had a really good confession for this week but it fell out of my brain so instead, I’ll confess that, despite the sentiments of the majority of people I know including my own husband, this is how I feel about the new Star Wars movie:FullSizeRender (29)

Read some good internet stuff this week: 101 pop culture references from a Gen X childhood (confession: I don’t know some of these but my excuse is that those of us born between 77-82ish fall into some weird Gen X/Gen Y black hole and maybe they’re from when I was too young to remember shit?), the movers who help women fleeing domestic abuse situations by moving them for free, Book Riot’s 2016 Read Harder book challenge (confession: I have no plans to participate as of now but I do have a couple of those categories in my personal reading challenge. Info on that next week), and the itinerary and photos from this guy’s $213 trip across America (confession: I want to do this).

Planned a blog redesign, content and visual, for this here space for early next year. Just need to find the money or the skills to get it done.

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Coming up next week: Judging Covers (which was supposed to go live this week but we all know by now my posting scheduling never goes as planned) and my 2016 personal reading challenge. But first, a weekend filled with The Nutcracker, a birthday party, and a viewing of The Polar Express on an actual train. Look for pictures on Instagram, provided I remember to take them.

Have a great weekend!

 

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Holiday playlist with a Jana and Erin twist

December 17, 2015 by Jana 9 Comments

This entry is part 5 of 8 in the series Playlists

Jana’s note–Erin and I usually do these collaborative playlists on the last Thursday of the month but Christmas and New Year’s threw that schedule to shit. And besides, thanks to this, you might have some new tunes to rock out to on Christmas. Because after 24 hours of A Christmas Story, you might want to shoot your own eye out. Don’t do that. Listen to these instead.

​It’s that time again…time for Jana and Erin to bring you a playlist.  You know, the holiday season is upon us, and we’d be letting you all down if we didn’t bring you our own version of a holiday playlist.  Yes, there are many bloggers who have posted their own enjoyable playlists.  This is a holiday playlist with a Jana and Erin twist.

The Season’s Upon Us by the Dropkick Murphys:  What better way to kick-off a holiday playlist than with a group of aggressive Irishmen? 
 
Merry Christmas  Baby by Sister Hazel – If you aren’t a fan of the sing-song type Christmas songs, then check out Sister Hazel’s entire album.  They have enough grit (but not too much) to make it feel like you aren’t listening to cheesy Christmas music.
 
 
 
I Won’t Be Home for Christmas by Blink 182 – Pop punk icons that are completely irreverent should record a Christmas song, right?  Makes total sense.  This is a fun one.
 
 
 
Oi to the World by No Doubt – Want more pop punk fun in your Christmas song?  How about this one that really doesn’t sound like a Christmas song at all?
 
All I Need is Love by Ceelo featuring The Muppets – More silly holiday cheer?  Yes.  But, is it a decent song?  Yes.
 
Christmas Wrapping by Spice Girls -The original by The Waitresses is probably a better version, but it’s a rare moment that I’m going to want to post the Spice Girls…so here it is.
 
Christmas (Baby Please Come Home) by Anberlin – This song has been covered by many…admittedly, most aren’t too bad.  You might have assumed we’d pick U2 because they’d be the most obvious choice for women who like rock music that grew up in the ’80s and ’90s.  But, no.  We picked Anberlin’s.
 
Do They Know It’s Christmas? by Band Aid – Speaking of the ’80s, this song holds Jana’s title of “the only Christmas song on the radio I don’t turn off”. 
 
 
Christmas Canon Rock by Trans Siberian Orchestra – Trust me on this.  If you ever have the opportunity to see this live, do it.  Not kidding.  If you don’t get goosebumps multiple times in a TSO performance, well, then, I don’t know what to say about that.
 
Happy XMas (War is Over) by Winger – You didn’t think Jana & Erin would create this playlist without some hair bands, did you?  Don’t laugh at Winger.  This is a good version. 
 
Medley (Santa Clause is Coming to Town and Run Run Rudolph) by Bon Jovi – You didn’t think Erin would have a hand in this playlist without Bon Jovi did you?  C’mon.  It’s a live clip and Jon dances with Santa.  What’s not to love?
 
Please Come Home for Christmas by Jon Bon Jovi – Hey, Jon Bon Jovi and Bon Jovi (the band) are two different things.  Plus, this is the sexiest Christmas video ever created.
 
Dominick the Donkey by Lou Monte – Because Jana allowed Erin two Christmas songs with Jovi in the artist, Erin has allowed Jana this song.
 
Christmas is the Time to Say I Love You by Billy Squier – Every time this comes on, I can’t help myself, I sing, I sway, I want to say “I love you” to a loved one.
 
On behalf of Jana & Erin – Happy Hanukkah, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Merry Festivus!

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A Whole30 experience: An interview with myself

December 15, 2015 by Jana 26 Comments

Once I realized I wanted to recap my Whole30 experience for you guys, I figured the best way to do it was to interview myself with some of the most common questions I’ve been asked. Warning: it’s a lot of words. There’s a TL;DR summary at the bottom. 

Let me know if you have any questions I didn’t answer!whole30

Why did you choose to do a Whole30?

For me, it was more of a mental challenge than anything else. I’d been feeling off, like I couldn’t successfully complete any goal I set, and I figured if I could get through one of these, especially through Thanksgiving, anything else would seem easy. Or, at the very least, less insurmountable. The weight loss and health benefits were a bonus but more incidental side effects.

Okay, that all makes sense. But what the hell is a Whole30?

You can visit the website for an actual, technical definition and explanation but in Jana’s words, it’s a 30 day restrictive, paleo, elimination eating plan. Basically, you avoid grains, dairy, legumes, and sugars and any sweeteners (including honey and maple syrup). It leaves meats, eggs, potatoes (a new addition this year), fruits, vegetables, and various substitutes/changes like almond and coconut flour, coconut milk, spaghetti squash, etc.

With all those limitations, what did you eat? 

Eggs. A lot of fucking eggs. In fact, I am so damn sick of eggs I can’t even look at them right now. But for lunches and dinners, we ate bunless burgers with baked sweet potatoes, vegetable soup using broth made from the stock created when you cook a chicken, coconut chicken patties, spaghetti squash and meat sauce (made with my frozen garden tomatoes), stuffed peppers using ground turkey and cauliflower rice, fried “rice” (also using cauliflower rice)…things like that. We got pretty creative and there are a ton of resources on Pinterest and Instagram and the interwebs to help. We found ourselves eating some surprisingly delicious recipes despite not being able to use normal, typical ingredients.

It was easier to make substitutions than I thought it would be. For instance, cranberry sauce is a family favorite at Thanksgiving but the recipe I ordinarily use requires a lot (A LOT) of sugar so obviously that was out this year. I found a recipe that used only cranberries, frozen cherries, and apple juice (fruit juices are okay as sweeteners). Let me just say that this recipe kicked the ever loving shit out of my normal recipe and going forward, it’s the one we’re going to use at all the holidays. Same with guacamole. I dipped carrots and peppers in the guac instead of chips. Same avocado deliciousness, less bloat, more fiber.

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that, for the most part, I was never hungry. There were days I didn’t snack so by the time dinner rolled round, I was willing to gnaw on anything that wasn’t nailed down but if I remembered to have a snack, I never got those horrible hunger pangs you hear from people when they’re on a diet. It has to do with the real, whole, unprocessed qualities of the foods you’re eating. There is such a difference between this way of eating and what the Whole30 founders call the “Standard American Diet” (SAD)

Was it hard? 

In a word? YES. Oddly, though, it was harder during the second half of the month than it was in the beginning. In the beginning, there was momentum and hey, I’m really doing this! But then it just started to drag. I grew tired of planning everything. I wanted to eat something that wasn’t chicken or a vegetable. Or an egg. I wanted peanut butter or cheese with my afternoon apple. I wanted to stop going to the grocery store every few days. I wanted to bring in dinner when I didn’t feel like cooking. I wanted to stop being conscious of every single label and just eat. But then I remembered why I was doing it and how different I felt and it made it easy to power through.

Thanksgiving was way easier than I’d anticipated, though, so that was nice.

There seems to be so many perks to this. Are there any downfalls?

Absolutely! While you can’t deny the health benefits of moving away from the SAD, this is not an easy way to eat. Many of the foods are more expensive, it requires extensive meal planning and there’s none of that “hey, we’re out and about, let’s just grab something quick” (or, if you choose to do it, there are very few options), you will spend an obscene amount of time in the kitchen either every day or once a week to prep for the whole week, and it gets boring. Especially breakfast. As I mentioned earlier, I am ridiculously sick of eggs. I know that a lot of people who’ve done this use their leftovers for breakfast but that’s what the husband takes for lunch so it really left eggs. I would have loved to make muffins or a bread using an acceptable flour substitute but almost every recipe called for syrup or honey which is verboten during the 30 days.

After 30 days of drastically altering how you eat, you must have learned a thing or two. What are some of the lessons you took away from it?

First, I learned which foods trigger my stomach issues. I’ve had stomach problems for as long as I can remember (remember how I had to have a colonoscopy?) and working through a Whole30 helped pinpoint which ones really bother me. Second, I learned that sugar is in basically everything. EVERYTHING. Even places where you don’t think it should be, it’s there and now, I check labels like a fiend. Third, I learned that I do really well achieving goals when I have strict parameters and deadlines. And fourth, I learned that I do even better when I have an accountability partner (thanks, husband!).

But the big lesson I learned is that people are willing to support me. Asking for help and being public with my goals is something I struggle with big time. I live in a weird world in my head where people will judge me and ridicule me and wonder what the fuck I’m doing telling them all this crap. Which is weird because I love when people share their goals because I find it inspiring and I enjoy watching their progress (and supporting them along the way) yet I can’t do it for myself. When I mentioned I was doing a Whole30 and shared some pictures of my food, I received mostly supportive comments. It floored me. I now need to take that lesson and run away with it.

Now the big question. How much weight did you lose?

I lost 10 pounds during the challenge, along with a few inches. It’s more than some people lose, less than others. The founders of the challenge encourage you not to check the scale or worry about losing weight but for me, I need to see that progress to keep going (some times nonscale victories just aren’t enough) so I weighed in once a week.

Please keep in mind that the 10 pounds are merely a drop in the bucket of what I need/want to lose but I’m extremely pleased with the start.

Speaking of nonscale victories, did you have any of those?

So many. I sleep better, I broke my dependency on sugar, I stopped checking the scale every day, I’m much more conscious of what I (and my family) eat and how we shop, and my bras fit a whole lot better. Most importantly, I feel stronger mentally. Making it through this accomplished exactly what I wanted it to: to prove to myself that I can achieve a goal no matter how difficult or unrealistic it might seem.

Now what are you going to do?

Well, after a 5 day binge of eating everything I couldn’t during the 30 days and feeling like absolute shit, I’m committing to 100 days of paleo eating. I’m tracking it with the don’t break the chain method and after that 100 days, I’ll revisit and see what I want to do next.

Would you recommend doing the Whole30?

It depends on the person. There are some people I say yes, absolutely do it. There are others who I’d say nope, don’t even try. Most people I know fall in the middle and really, it depends on your mindset. If you think you can commit the time and effort and discipline, then go for it. If you think even for a minute that you’d quit halfway through, don’t. Or maybe just commit to 15 days because the health and nonscale benefits alone are worth it.

TL;DR:  I did a Whole30. I didn’t starve despite not being able to eat a lot of foods, I had scale and nonscale victories, I learned a ton about my body, my support system, and my ability to achieve goals, and I recommend that people give it at least a two week try.

 

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