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Confessions of a smug weekend suitcase packer

March 14, 2013 by Jana 9 Comments

This is a guest post from my college friend Steph who blogs at Life According to Steph. She’s really smart and funny, so when you’re done reading her post, visit her blog or on Facebook or Pinterest. Also, tomorrow is her birthday and I know it would make her feel extra special if you stopped by. While you’re there, check out my guest post. 

bagsI used to be the girl who packed a lot of clothes for a weekend and didn’t use half of them. I’m Type A – I
love organization and efficiency. This over packing didn’t suit me, so I honed my packing skills and pared down. Armed with my trusty packing Excel spreadsheet, I carefully plotted my outfits, books, and beauty items (Jana’s note: I am impressed with this idea of a spreadsheet. The only thing I have that comes close is a toiletry bag that’s permanently packed with everything I can possibly need, except for makeup. I pack that separately and the day of the trip). I got packing down to a science in which there was no waste.

My bags were small and my pride was large when sharing rooms or houses with friends who brought so
much that they never used. There was no need to separate clean clothes from dirty in bags while I was
packing to leave. I wore everything I brought, and when I returned home, everything went right to the
laundry room. My system was awesome.

Then we went away for what was supposed to be a quick weekend trip to Atlantic City, an hour and a
half from home. My husband had an accident and had to get surgery. This required two overnight stays
in the hospital for him, and one for me. My streamlined packing found us ill-equipped for an extended
stay.

While this was hopefully a once in a lifetime occurrence, it got me thinking (read: stewing). I hate being
unprepared. I sat in the post-op waiting room, looked down at my clothes, and knew I’d be wearing the
same thing again the next day. Being stuck in a hospital while a loved one is going through surgery is bad
enough, feeling gross was not a good add on. My pared down packing was kicking me in my own ass.

We were surrounded by pricey outlets, and the more budget-friendly Old Navy was a far walk through
streets rife with pushy homeless people. I didn’t feel like dealing with that. I’d already spent $30 in cabs
back and forth to the hotel to get our stuff out of the room, and since my car was still over there, I knew
I had another $10 cab ride to go. I decided to tough it out instead of spending more money on new
clothes. Not to mention the fact that I didn’t want to leave my husband alone in the hospital, high as a
kite on dilaudid, trying to get out of bed when he wasn’t supposed to and gleefully trying to text on his
iPhone while I was browsing the yoga pants at Old Navy.

When we go away in the future, I’ll do these things differently:

1. Bring an extra set of pajamas and an extra day’s worth of clothes.
2. Know if my health insurance covers transport (I know this now, but didn’t know it then, and
couldn’t get in touch with anyone on a Sunday).
3. Pack my computer. My iPhone is good, but not enough if I’m stuck somewhere and need to
work remotely.
4. Always make sure I have extra cash – I usually don’t, I just happened to this time. It was great to
not worry about finding a MAC machine.
5. Carry an iPhone charger in my purse. At the end of a long day out, both of our phones were
dead. Thankfully we were with a friend who gave me hers to take to the Emergency Room that
night.

Jana’s note: I am not quite the expert suitcase packer that Steph is but I do have major paranoia issues regarding my person winding up in one location and my luggage in another so, in my carry-on, I will always have extra underwear and socks and some toiletries. And, not that I would know this from any experience or anything, but it really does suck to forget (or not have on hand) a charger, a toothbrush, underwear (yes, this is the second time I’ve mentioned my underwear. It’s very important to me), and enough cash. I also *might* be the overpacker that made Steph feel smug. 

Readers, what are some of your overnight packing tips?

Filed Under: Guest posts, random

What Is Your Life Story?

February 22, 2013 by Jana 3 Comments

This is a guest post from my friend Benjamin Feldman, a Writer and Content Strategist for ReadyForZero. He writes about saving money and getting out of debt at the ReadyForZero blog. You can find him on Twitter @BWFeldman.

your-life-storyIt was Fall of 2010, and I was restless. You can picture me sitting at my desk in front of a 14-inch computer monitor, staring at the screen. I don’t remember whether I was looking at an e-mail, a Legislative Bill Summary, a Committee Briefing, or a Floor Vote Tally. All I remember is that I knew something was wrong.

I was sitting inside my office, inside the Assembly wing, inside the California State Capitol Building in downtown Sacramento.

Up to that point, my life story was something like this: I had worked hard in high school to get accepted into college; when I got to college I became very interested in my Government and Public Policy classes and decided to choose that as my major. After graduating from college (and two years of grad school) I was able to get a job as a Legislative Assistant in the Capitol, working for a great Assembly member.

In many ways it was a dream come true. I felt very grateful. But why, then after two years working there did I feel like something was wrong?

Your Story Shapes Your Direction

The truth is, whatever life story you believe you’re living will shape the decisions you make and where you choose to go. It will also determine whether you feel happy with your current situation. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing. But it’s important to recognize this so you can shape it in a positive way.

This is as relevant to your financial life as it is to any other aspect of your life. No matter what, we are constantly telling ourselves a story in our heads – essentially, we’re narrating our own lives. We might say “Now that I have my degree, it’s time to get a job my family will respect,” or “Now that I have a job, I need to buy all the things that successful people have.”

There are an infinite number of life stories we can tell ourselves. Some are positive; some are negative; and some are fuzzy.

I believe that training yourself to make your life story a positive and clear one is something that can help you find your true state of happiness. By proactively cultivating your life story, you can make it more likely that you get to a place that is fulfilling (in work, in love, in life, in finances, etc.).

Change Your Story to Get to a Better Place

In my case, as I walked home after work that day, I realized that even though my life story seemed to indicate that this job was perfect for me, it wasn’t.

But why not?

Well, for whatever reason it was not bringing out my passion. And as I thought about it more and more, I began to understand: I craved a different kind of work. I wanted to create something on a daily basis. I wanted to see the product of my work somewhere tangible. I wanted to use language and imagination more. I wanted to write.

After this understanding took hold, it immediately began to reshape the life story I was telling myself in my head. No longer was I continuing to repeat the story about my interest in government, which led to my two degrees, which led to my ‘dream job,’ which… was the end of the story. No! Instead, I was now starting to tell a new story.

The new story started with my love of writing (since high school) and continued through my education and government job (where I refined my writing ability) and ended… Well, it didn’t have an ending yet – and that was the best part!

Once I had the new story, I was suddenly much more positive and was ready to figure out how to reach the next step in my journey.

This can happen for you too – no matter if you are looking to improve your career story, your financial story, your love story, or any other story.

Start by reflecting on what your current story says and then figure out what aspects of the story are not working. If your current story leads you to spend money that you don’t have, identify what it is that is motivating that behavior. Then start changing the story to one that affirms and promotes the new direction you want to take.

When you start changing your story, you will hopefully see new ideas and new opportunities arise. Follow those and you will no doubt arrive at a more fulfilling and enjoyable place. After changing my own story I actively started looking for new jobs that would allow me to write. It took some time and some persistence, but I eventually happened upon a job listing for a Writer and Content Strategist. I was fortunate to get the job, and now I’m writing blog posts for a company that is helping people pay off their debt. I’m very thankful for how things turned out.

I hope my story may help you too! Let me know in the comments if you have had an experience like this yourself or if you have a question about my story.

 

 

Filed Under: Guest posts, Money Motivation

Term Vs. Whole Life Insurance: The Eternal Debate

February 4, 2013 by Jana 10 Comments

This is a guest post from Mindy Lamont, the Founder & CEO at The Insurist and participant in Bloggers Helping Bloggers. As a former sheepherder, she finds life insurance and financial planning just a bit more exciting.

Term vs. Whole Life insurance.

I sigh just typing those words. Several times.

wpid-1332151853_life-insurance-policyPeople get all sorts of riled up on this topic. Cue the likes of Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey. It’s like the Vegan argument. Full of passion, idealism, emotion, and half truths. And no, I’m not calling Vegans liars. My diet comes close, without all the emotion. Same with my views on term vs. whole life.

I believe they’re both good. Depends on the client. Put into the wrong hands, a whole life policy can be like kryptonite for your finances. In the right hands, and much later down the road, a well designed whole life policy can be a diamond in the rough, just waiting to be harvested. This is where the confusion lies. The pundits like to portray this as an apples to apples comparison. It’s not. At all.

Let’s start with defining term coverage. Term is the most basic form of life insurance. At the time of underwriting your risk profile determines your premium. That premium is guaranteed for a certain number of years. 1, 5, 10, 15, 20, etc…usually in five year increments. At the end of the initial term, the premiums typically skyrocket. Why? Because term life insurance isn’t designed to go on forever.

Often times this increase in premium is described as a scam or another example of the insurance industry trying to take your money. It’s really not. It’s just that these products are not intended to go beyond their initial term. That is all. You might think someone who was uninsurable at the end of a term policy might have to continue and pay these enormous premiums. Likely not. Why? Because of something called a conversion privilege…one of the most important concepts when it comes to buying term like insurance.

What’s a conversion privilege you ask? The majority of term policies provide the ability to convert to another, usually permanent, product with no additional evidence of insurance. Huge, right? That means if during the duration of your term policy you decide you want life insurance for life you can get the same amount of coverage in a permanent product guaranteed. The devil’s in the fine print though, because some policies limit the number of years you can take advantage of this, so make sure you know what you’re getting into.

So the summary on term life: simple, affordable coverage that is intended to cover a temporary risk for a defined number of years.

Whole life isn’t so easy to explain. This is often part of the problem. Hard to explain and harder to understand if you’re not eating, drinking, and breathing life insurance every day. This is what leads to the product being SOLD instead of understood.

Whole life is best used as a savings product, not strictly for death benefit protection. And it’s a LONG TERM savings product when used this way. While there are many different uses for whole life products, I’m going to stick to its application as a safe money savings tool.

Treating it as an apples to apples comparison with term life products, the premium numbers immediately point out we’ve got big differences. For the healthiest 35 year old man, a $1 million 20 year term policy will run something in the neighborhood of $40 per month for 20 years. For the same guy, a $1 million dollar whole life policy will cost $820 per month through age 65. Say what?!? No that’s not a typo. $40 a month vs. $820 a month. Who in their right mind would pay $820 for something they can get for $40?

No one. Because it’s not the same policy.

The difference in this example is what happens INSIDE the policy and what you can do with it. Some call it a “living” benefit. If we look at the whole life policy at the end of twenty years (when the term policy expires), the whole life policy has a minimum guaranteed cash value of $231,360, where as the term policy has no cash value built up. If the client pays premium to age 65 and uses the cash value to supplement his retirement income, he has the potential of adding over $27,000 to his annual income from age 65 to 95. So for a total of $196,900 paid over 30 years, the client can potentially draw $834,600 (over the next 30 years) out of the policy on a tax free basis. Yep, you read that correctly. On a tax free basis.

The next argument against whole life typically comes in the form of “buy term and invest the difference.” Often times they’re right, particularly when the client doesn’t have 30 years to let their money accumulate. But rather than lose your attention completely, I’ll stop here and take a break. In a follow up post we’ll tackle that one, with numerical examples so you can see where this does and doesn’t make sense.

One thing to point out is while we are using the same theoretical client for this example, in real life, the two product examples I’ve used would be applied to two completely different clients. One with a need for basic life insurance protection (i.e. the term product) and one with a decent amount of discretionary cash available to contribute to a long term savings plan. The need for term insurance can be easily identified and solved. The suitability of a whole life policy should only be determined after a thorough discovery process. If someone’s trying to shove it down your throat, run fast.

Thanks for listening. I’m happy to take any questions, and I’ll be back with more on this topic in a future post (Jana’s note: and she will be. Soon. Because although I grew up in a house with an insurance broker for a father, I don’t understand this stuff at all. And it’s important).

**Please note: there are all sorts of disclosures about theoretical explanations of insurance products. Things like “this example is only for a 35 year old healthy male in California who’s never been skydiving, didn’t party like a rockstar, and doesn’t play with tigers.” You get the picture. The figures here are for explanation purposes only and represent no guarantees related to any specific person reading this. Play nice kids.

 

 

Filed Under: Guest posts, Money

DIY tips from near death experiences

January 28, 2013 by Jana 14 Comments

This is a guest post from my friends and new bloggers Jack and Diane at Marriage in Debt who’ve decided it is time to get out of debt.  And what better way to do it other than in the public?!  Zany adventures are promised as they first work to get rid of over $78,000 of “traditional” debt (not including student loans or houses – those numbers are coming later).  No gimmicks, no schemes, no inheritance, no lottery winnings here.  Just plain hard work as a computer programmer and professional fundraiser figure this all out.  

She Said:

someecards.com - Well babe, you've definitely given a new meaning to DIY. It no longer means do it yourself but stands for how dangerously incompetent you are.
This is not the picture they provided. My computer hates me and wouldn’t upload those. So this is the substitute.

It was a crisp day on the street lined with homes filled with dozens of occupants attending the local university.  Inside this one specific tall white beat-down house with the lopsided porch lived five guys.  Nope, they didn’t start the hamburger chain (Jana’s note: though wouldn’t it be awesome if they did? Free fries for life!).  They were all brilliant in school and studying engineering, accounting, geology, education, and mathematics (combined GPA of about 18.6).  On this particular day, while also trying various methods to cure the hangover, they were gathered around the doorway to the laundry room.  Quite simply, chicks don’t dig wet clothes and they were all too broke to call a professional.  The math major was up to his elbows in parts and wires until the guys who studied finances, rocks, and actual mechanical engineering were satisfied the dryer was finally fixed.  Confidentially the math major began to plug the new cord into the wall and then attempted to bolt it to the dryer.  All stared in disbelief as a blazing bright blue arc of 220 volts shot from one of his hands to the other.  There were no permanent damage (we think).  It should also be noted that the washer had recently leaked and the math major was standing in this puddle of water.  The engineer simply quipped, “cool!”

Ladies and gentleman, my confession at the moment is that I actually married the math major. (Jana’s note: I married someone who tried to do pyrotechnics with grain alcohol. I think Diane and I should get together and compare notes on what the hell we were thinking.)

The dryer incident was not the last of the near-death handyman incidents.  I may have forgiven the great ceiling-fan-wire-melting-during-the-heat-wave-with-a-newborn-baby incident but certainly have not forgotten (obviously)!  There has also been successful stories involving car alternators, oven doors, lawnmowers, and, of course, anything computer related.

My preference is to pick up the phone and call in an expert.  But Jack likes to tinker with it first.  Oddly enough, when the decision came to either hire a professional or attempt to fix on our own, the final verdict is almost always centered on the green paper bills.

He Said:

Yep, it’s no secret that I refuse to call experts and, armed with whatever information I can pull off of the internet, I can fix ANYTHING!  Do I have the tools, skills, knowledge, or any business tackling 90% of these projects?  NO!

When looking at a project, you have to make the decision between DIY or hire the professionals.  That has nothing to do with pride nor ego nor being-a-man bravado.  This is about getting the job right that costs as little as possible.

  1. Research!   The internet is a wonderful thing and can be used for more than just porn and fantasy football leagues.  Surprised, right?  Yeah, me too.  Most vehicles have specific community boards where you can ask any question or search for any solution.  Most appliances have self-help boards that include step-by-step instructions with pictures.  Just put “How to..” into Google or Bing or Ask, and watch the knowledge come pouring onto your screen
  2. Take a quick stop at YouTube.  Our Jeep lost all power to the driver’s side door.  I kid you not, there was a video of a guy demonstrating how to find the broken wire and solder it back together on the same exact model with the same interior and exterior colors.  It was uncanny that I peeked out the window.  I have used YouTube to help install heating elements in dryers, patch sheetrock, and setup a garage door opener.  It is amazing what is out there, and what people have recorded themselves fixing over the years.  Be aware that they always make it seem easier on the screen than it is in real life.
  3. Consider your tools.  If there is a mistake I always make, it’s that I do not have the right tools.  I think I can get by with the tools I have rather than ponying up the dough for the right ones.  And, each time, I end up doing more damage or spending three times as long finishing the project.  Time is worth money too.  Consider the investment in the right tools for this job that you will need to purchase.
  4. Duct tape and WD-40 work well in a pinch.  When the back spoiler of our Trailblazer fell off on a family vacation, the always versatile duct tape held everything together until we got back home.  And, when it turned out to be a $700 repair job, it held for a couple of months while we saved up the money.  Our neighbors were super impressed with that car sitting in our driveway, but we paid $700 for the repair, not $700 plus 18% interest on a credit card.
  5.  Utilize social media.  We all have friends that have done these types of things before and can offer you some guidance.  When our air conditioner unit fan stopped turning, we posted the problem on Facebook.  Ten suggestions later telling us to “kick it” and ..that actually did work.   So ignore all male impulses to NOT ASK and realize the end-goal is to get the project done right
  6. If you have friends or family that does this type of work professionally, utilize them.  The best thing you can do is bribe them with some beer, have them show you how to do it, use their tools, and hopefully you can get the project down for the cost of parts only.  And, the project is done right the first time.
  7. If after all of these options above you decide to call an expert, rely upon the above tools to find an expert to trust.  A blind call from the yellow pages rarely worked out for us as that is how we found anti-politics guy, still-in-refrigeration-school guy, make-yourself-at-home guy, and sleeping-under-outdoor-running-spigot guy, and the I-swear-your-dog-did-it guy.

My attempts at DIY projects over the years has lead to some very interesting and entertaining stories among friends, especially the near-death ones involved large volts of electricity.  But, I have learned a ton, become more confident along the way, and, more importantly, learned my limitations on what I can and cannot tackle.

Some of my buddies can tear down a car engine blindfolded or finish an entire basement with a single hammer.  Other guys hire someone to paint a room or change a light bulb. If you are one that just jumps in feet first, do the research first to see if you are going to be over your head.  Basically, put the porn down and do a little research.  You may save yourself some big bucks with a little DIY knowledge.

Jana’s final thoughts: DIY is not for the faint of heart. It’s tough, it’s complicated and, if you don’t know what you’re doing, it can wind up costing you a ton of money in the end. Before giving DIY a try, follow Jack’s handy tips (see what I did there? Botched SNL reference. Yeah, I know. I’m hilarious) and determine if you really can pull off a DIY project or if you need to call a professional. 

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6 ways to succeed at your first job

December 10, 2012 by Jana 4 Comments

This is a guest post from the author behind Gen Y Finance Journey. Gen Y Finance Journey is a marketing professional in her 20’s. A former shopaholic, she’s navigating her way through adulthood learning about frugality, investing, and healthy living. Follow her on Twitter at @GenY_Finance.

Your first job out of college can be very scary. Your responsibilities may not align with what you studied in college and you’ll likely be expected to learn a lot of new skills. Some employers have structured training programs, while others don’t. You may be joining with a whole crop of recent graduates, or you may be the youngest employee. One thing is for certain though: you want to be successful at your first job.

You only get one chance to apply for jobs and not be judged for a lack of work experience, so you want to make the most of that first job. When it comes time to apply for your next job, you’ll want to have great references and a demonstrated commitment to excellence. The raises and promotions you receive in your first job will influence the types of jobs you’ll be eligible for later on and the level of compensation you can request.

Here are six things you can do to almost guarantee success at your first job and put you in a position for a great career.

DON’T SAY NO

You might have been hired for a specific job, but as a recent graduate, you need to build up your skill set, and that means accepting projects that may not be in your job description. A willingness to take on new projects will prove to your boss that you’re motivated and dedicated to your job. It conveys a desire to grow within the company and will set you up nicely for raises and promotions. Supervisors really like people who are willing to go above and beyond the call of duty.

Taking on new projects will also help you build your resume for when it comes time to look for a new job. To increase your skill set, you could take courses, but that requires you to pay course fees and put in extra hours outside of work. When you learn new skills on the job, you’re getting paid for your time.

When your boss asks if you’d like to take on a new project, unless you’re already completely swamped with existing projects, you should say yes.

IT’S OK TO MAKE MISTAKES…

We had a recent graduate join our department a few months ago. He was joining us three weeks before our biggest conference of the year. We have a huge, ornate booth and throw a big party at this conference. It requires a lot of planning. We drafted him to help us prepare all of our shipments and take a carload of boxes to our shipment center. He then stayed back at home while the other three of us went to the conference, where we realized upon unpacking that one of the boxes was missing. We figured that either he left the box at the office or the shipment center forgot to send it. I said to my boss, “I hope the shipment center finds it, I would hate for the new kid to have made such a big mistake in his first month. He’ll feel awful!” To which my boss replied, “I hope he was the one who made the mistake, because it will be a really good learning experience for him and he’ll figure out early on how important it is to double check everything.”

When you’re 22, nobody expects you to be perfect. If you make a mistake, don’t try to shirk responsibility or pretend the mistake never happened. Own up to the mistake. Your boss will appreciate your honesty and will trust you more in the future. Imagine you’re a manager and one of your team members made a mistake. Wouldn’t you want to know what happened so you could figure out a resolution? It will be scary the first time you realize you made a mistake and have to tell your boss about it, but it will be a great learning experience and will hopefully strengthen your relationship with your boss.

On the other hand, if your boss reacts negatively and makes you feel terrible about making a mistake, that’s a good indication that you might not want to stay in this position for too long. You’ll keep making occasional mistakes throughout your career, and you don’t want to have a boss who is going to make you feel awful about every single one of them.

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