This post is part of Alyssa’s back to blogging nonchallenge challenge. I think I got that right.
I love music. Always have, as long as I can remember. I even write about it a lot (like my playlists with Erin, a regular feature I did back when I wrote about money, and I have some other random playlists floating around, too). So when the prompt came up to list 3 song that define your life and why, I had to get on that.
I’ll say, it was hard to narrow it down. I went with 4 (because I do what I want) and while one isn’t a surprise since I mentioned it a couple of weeks ago, I’ll repeat it anyway. I also went with songs that define my life now, rather than overall because I’m a much different person than I was when I was 18 and even 30 and to use songs from back then would be fun but not necessarily accurate. However. Some of these songs have been constant in my life for the last 10 or so years so maybe what I just said isn’t entirely true. I don’t know. Music, especially good music, is timeless.
Song #1: Maybe by Sick Puppies
This song changed my life. I wish that were hyperbole but it’s not. It came to me during an extremely difficult time, personally and professionally, an while 2 years went by before I took the message to heart, it stayed with me the whole time. It’s like the song was giving me permission to walk away from all the horribleness and let me know that yes, it’ll be hard but things have to be hard and change before they get better.
Song #2: The Middle by Jimmy Eat World
For whatever reason, when I’m in the middle of any sort of crisis or weird situation or some sort of tough, awkward time, this song appears on the radio almost every day. I take it as a sign, like the universe is sending me a message that it’ll all be okay in the end and whatever I’m going through is temporary.
Song #3: America’s Sweetheart by Elle King
I love everything about the song. Specifically, the message. It’s amazing. Essentially it’s about embracing who you are, loving yourself, and everyone who doesn’t like you or wants you to change can fuck off.
Song #4: I’m Not Alright by Shinedown (also, Amaryllis by Shinedown. Is it cheating to have 2 songs by the same band grouped together if they’re from the same album?)
What I love about I’m Not Alright is that it gives permission to be not okay. To not be perfect, to be flawed, to be weird and quirky and that if you have a mental illness, it’s okay because it’s not the sum of who you are but the sum of all those parts make you who you are. That’s exactly how I feel about my depression. And Amaryllis is a song I listen to on my bad days; it helps give me clarity and perspective and keeps me going.
Song #5: Count on Me by Default
I am not a big crier but this song gets me every. Single. Time. Not even kidding, I can not listen to this song without getting choked up. I’ll tell you why, too. I heard it when I was pregnant with the child and it says exactly everything I wanted and want her to know . Everyone knows that life sucks sometimes and that there’s one person in their life who is there for them all the time, unconditionally, no questions asked, no matter what, and I want her to know that that’s me.
I’m sure I could have added to the list but we’ll just stop here. How about you guys? What songs provide the soundtrack to your life?
SMD @ Life According to Steph says
I love two and three. Great explanations behind all.
Rebecca Jo says
Ahhh – I love the reason Count on Me is so emotional for you.
Isn’t it great when you hear a song that just is what you want to say… put to music.
Nadine says
Love the explanation for song 3. And I think I shared with you my love for Shinedown before!!! LOVE THEM! Great list!
Tanya @ A Mindful Migration says
I love American Sweetheart, thanks to you. And yes, it is one of the songs I sing loudly to in my car, with all the other pop princesses. Hmmm… hopefully Elle is okay with that! I’m not familiar with Shinedown or Default but I love why you love those songs, so I’m definitely going to give them a try. I WIll Survive was the last song I played on my college radio show and it’s always been my theme song.
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kristen says
count on me makes me cry when i pay attention to the lyrics. love that song. the middle by jimmy eat world reminds me so much of early high school, i have absolutely no idea why, but every time i hear it, i am transported back. i reckon i hear it more now vs back then!
alyssa says
I didn’t realize I knew Maybe until I hit play—thank you for giving me the song title and band name! Hitting me very close to home right now too.
The Middle is such a great song—it’s upbeat and fun and we always bopped along to it, but holy hell if the lyrics aren’t just so key in so many situations!
Being “not alright” is as important as being alright when you can be is. (Horrible sentence, I duck my head in shame.) That title immediately made me think of Inside Out, because when I saw that movie I just stood up and went HELL YES—feel your feelings. Own and accept what it is—you don’t CONSTANTLY have to be striving to put on a brave face or make it all seem like it’s going well. Sometimes things suck, and sometimes you’re not the best version of yourself, and sometimes that’s perfectly okay.
Reading your comments on Count on Me gave me goosebumps.
Ashley @ The Wandering Weekenders says
I love America’s Sweetheart for all the reasons that you mentioned too! It’s totally ok to be different! Plus I just love Elle King’s voice! It’s so awesome!
texerinsydney says
I knew the significance of most of these to you, but I like them all compiled here together.
My Shinedown choice is Breaking Inside…and yes, I’m trying to organize a post for Alyssa’s prompt where it will make its appearance.
You turned me on to the kick-ass-ness of America’s Sweetheart, and I thank you for it.
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