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Brush your teeth now. Save money later.

February 15, 2013 by Jana 10 Comments

This is a guest post from my friend (and huge DMS supporter) Christian Losciale, staff writer for Smart Military Money, a personal finance site dedicated to educating veterans, service members and their spouses. Follow Christian and his work on Google+.

toothThe bill hurt more than the surgery.

After not going to the dentist for about 20 months and seldom flossing during that time, I paid the price. Between several teeth I had deep crevices, as deep as 6 millimeters. The dental hygienist warned me that 5 millimeters is too deep. In short, I was going to need a deep clean, which was a lot like non-invasive surgery.

Without insurance, I would have paid $1,256. MetLife helped me out and I paid $727 for the procedure that left my mouth numb for the better half of a day. The hit to my emergency fund taught me a few lessons.

I should floss every day. Floss is an inexpensive alternative to two-hour visits to the dentist. For a few bucks you can buy plenty of floss for a few months’ time. Flossing only takes a couple of minutes each night. Do it.

My dental insurance helped. Not only did cover some of the costs for my deep clean, the price of my wisdom teeth removal was cut in half. I paid $260 to get all four of my teeth pulled instead of $520.

Always pad your emergency fund. The operations weren’t paid for completely by emergency fund. Since it was my first dentist visit in almost two years, I expected it to be bad, but not that bad. I had $500 ready. The emergency fund did the rest without being emptied. Every time you get paid, put some money in your emergency fund. Get it ready for six months of expenses.

Flossing is like saving for retirement. You can floss now and prevent dental problems down the line, just like you can save money now and be ready for retirement. Not taking action now means battling gingivitis or having insufficient income later, respectively.

All this I learned the hard way: on my back, staring at a bright light with hands in my mouth. It’s not the most comfortable position in which to have financial epiphanies. But like I said, the surgery wasn’t as bad as the cost.

Jana’s note: Going to the dentist is one of those things that many people just put off, claiming that they don’t have time or it’s too expensive or uncomfortable or any number of excuses. But dental health is just as important as taking care of your physical health. Because, in addition to the financial reasons Christian discussed, you don’t want a toothache or an impacted tooth to land you in the emergency room. Then you’re stuck with that bill as well as all of the other problems.

Other cost saving ways to protect your teeth and avoid huge bills or unnecessary dental expenses:

  • Watch your sugar intake. Good for your teeth, waistline, and overall health.
  • Watch your coffee and tea intake. Yes, there are at home remedies for de-yellowing your teeth but really, who wants to do that? And those whitening strips are expensive.
  • If you have dental insurance, review what your policy covers. For instance, my insurance covers bi-annual exams and one set of x-rays per person but there are certain x-rays that are not fully covered. They’re for my daughter so we need to make sure that we have that money set aside. Same for orthodontia, co-pays for dental visits, fillings, etc. It’s crucial that you know what your policy does and doesn’t cover so you’re not surprised with the bill.

Readers, what suggestions or advice do you have for avoiding huge bills at the dentist? 

Filed Under: Money, money tips

Dollar store shopping: My top 5

February 11, 2013 by Jana 14 Comments

dollarstore_graphicI’ll be honest with you. For the longest time, I never understood the allure of a dollar store. To me, it just smacked of cheap, crappy items and people who love to shop for junk. But as I got older, I notice that

people everywhere–at work, at daycare, in my neighborhood–couldn’t stop raving about the damn place. So one day, I went into one.

And I understood.

For starters, the store was just so…clean. Not at all what I pictured. And it had everything! Toiletries, groceries, household staples, craft and school supplies, party supplies, candy, balloons…I don’t think there was anything I could have needed that I couldn’t find at the dollar store. From that point forward, I was hooked.

It made me glad I stopped being all judgy and went inside. My budget is stretched just a little farther in certain areas now that I shop at the dollar store, which, at certain times of the year (what’s up, December), pretty much reaches capacity no matter how much we save in advance.

I won’t say that I do all my shopping at the dollar store. For instance, I’m not big on grocery shopping at the there for a number of reasons (number 1 being there’s an Aldi 3 miles down the road. More items, similar prices). I’m also not fond of buying certain household products because the quality is somewhat compromised (unless I’m in a huge financial pinch. Then I’m not in any position to be picky). But there are certain items that I do buy with some regularity. Inspired by a post on Money Saving Mom, I’ve compiled my list of my 5 favorite things I buy at the dollar store (really Dollar Tree):

  1. Storage containers. It may not seem like it on the outside, but I am a mess. Well, not so much me as my child, husband, and house. Since clutter drives my anxiety, I’ve been on a huge kick to organize as much as possible. Enter Dollar Tree. For under $20, I’ve been able to buy a number of storage containers, caddies, and laundry baskets to help organize all the shit that litters my house and my pantry closet. These have worked just as well as the fancy ones I bought at other places and will continue to work well as long as the other people in my home use them with the same regularity that I do (hint, hint, husband. I know you’re reading this). 
  2. Greeting cards. I’ll say it. I hate greeting cards. It pains me to spend money on something that just gets thrown away or recycled almost immediately. And I don’t quite understand why the cards cost so much. I’ve thought about making my own since the discount card store went out of business but I’m not crafty at all so instead, I purchase them from the dollar store. This way, I still look all polite and fancy, and it doesn’t bother me as much to know that they’re going right in the trash when I’ve only spent $.50 on a card.
  3. Gift wrap. Along the same lines as greeting cards, I can’t stand spending money on something that looks nice for about 17 seconds and then gets torn to shreds. While I usually use tissue paper instead of wrapping paper, it’s still a better value at the dollar store than anywhere else. So, when I’m in need of  gift bags, bows, ribbons, and all of the other accoutrements that go with making your gifts look fit for Pinterest, I hit up the dollar store. $10 and I’m set for 6 years, give or take. That’s a sweet deal.
  4. Kid stuff. My daughter is one of those kids that will draw one stick figure on a piece of paper and call it done. As a result, we go through lots of construction paper, doodle paper, coloring books, crayons (which, I’ll admit, I stock up on during back to school sales), and assorted other craft supplies. Rather than spend unnecessarily at the craft store, I can hit up the dollar store and for $5, buy 5 pads of paper that last, surprisingly, for quite a while.  While we’re there, we also stock up on some of the other crafts they have as well. A few extra dollar to save my sanity on a rainy day? So worth it!
  5. Candy. Here we go. Another confession. When I go to the movies, I bring in my own candy. And drinks. I hide them in my (very) large purse and once we’re settled into our seats, we dig in. Fortunately for me, the dollar store and the movie theater are in the same shopping center so I don’t have to lug the stuff around for a while. It’s just a nicer deal to spend less than $4 on snacks instead of close to $5 for a bottle of water. I’ll also buy bagged candy around the holidays and fine, yes, sometimes I go in and just buy myself a Butterfinger because I want one.

So those are my favorite and most frequently bought items at the dollar store. I’ve been known to purchase other things, too, but those really aren’t worth talking about.

Readers, do you frequent a dollar store in your area? What do you purchase the most often? Do you also sneak candy and drinks into the movie theater?

 

Filed Under: Money

Tips for handling PTA fundraisers

February 8, 2013 by Jana 5 Comments

someecards.com - Please, Cindy. The PTA needs me. I'm in charge of exploiting children to get more money from school tax payers with door to door sales of overpriced garbage.Confession: I refuse to join the PTA at my daughter’s school. Why? Because they are fundraising whores.

Every day, my child comes home with papers upon papers from the PTA, telling us about a fundraiser at this restaurant or asking us to solicit friends and family for their money or trying to sell some crappy product. It’s maddening. I mean, I’m all for supporting my daughter’s school and her education, but I don’t feel that my bank account (or the bank account of people I care about) need to be drained in order to demonstrate that support.

Not only am I frustrated with the amount of times they ask us for money, but there is absolutely no disclosure as to where the money is going. Are they raising it for equipment for the school? New books for the library? Updated computers in every classroom? A school supply pool so that parents no longer have to contribute to school supply welfare? All they tell us is that the PTA is raising money for the school. They don’t tell us why. And maybe if I knew why, I’d be more inclined to contribute.

There’s also this—they brainwash the kids to think that if they don’t participate in these fundraisers, they’re essentially punished. They don’t win the prize, they don’t support their school, and they’ll be left out because they didn’t do it. What the hell kind of awful lessons are these to teach to our kids?

I just can’t be part of an organization that does that. So I opt not to.

Opting out of the PTA doesn’t mean that I don’t support my child’s education. In fact, there are plenty of ways to be involved without joining the PTA or spending a fortune on PTA fundraisers. Just because I choose not to reach into the deep recesses of my wallet to support my child’s school, doesn’t mean I don’t do anything to support the school or her education.  And if you, too, don’t want to join the PTA at your child’s school, you can join me in these inexpensive options:

  1. Volunteer. Whether it’s helping out at lunch or chaperoning a field trip, parents make a huge difference when they volunteer at their child’s school. It’s helps the teachers out (and they’re very grateful for that), and it gives you an inside look at the dynamics of the class.  I’ve learned so much about my child’s day and her friends just by observing what’s on the walls of her classroom.
  2. Help with homework. And read the literature that gets sent home. This is especially beneficial for younger kids, like my daughter, who aren’t as independent as the older ones. Assisting with homework is important not only to reinforce the lessons that they’re learning at school but you get to see, firsthand, what they’re learning.  Letters from the principal and classroom notes fliers are also great for providing this information.
  3. Communicate with the teacher. If your child isn’t forthcoming about information, take the time to communicate with her teacher. Send an email. Make a phone call. Attend a parent-teacher conference.
  4. Pick and choose which fundraisers you participate in. There’s no reason to participate in all of them. It’s expensive and tiring to do them all. Plus, you don’t want to come across as begging family and friends for their money. So, decide at the beginning of the year what your fundraising budget is (and determine how many you will participate in) and stick to it. If that means you attend a few restaurant events and sell one product, then that’s all you do. No need to feel guilty or go broke raising money for someone else, even your kid’s school.
  5. Make a one-time donation to the school. And leave it at that. When I ranted about this on my personal Facebook page, some of my teacher friends said that they make a donation to the school at the beginning of the year, ensuring that a) their kids get the ridiculous trinkets and b) they don’t feel guilty not participating in anything else. They’ve done what they feel is right and what they can afford and they move on.

There’s also this option, and it’s one my husband came up with. When the school sends home a fundraiser, talk to your kid about it. Explain the cost of all the fundraisers, why the school is doing is (even if it’s in vague terms), how much time it takes, and the true value of the prizes. Then find something that your kid really wants (like a Disney cruise, if you’re my kid) and compare the prices and value. Tell your kid that for every dollar you don’t spend on a fundraiser is money you can put towards saving for that goal.

I like this idea. It teaches kids about savings, it teaches a lesson about fundraising and how little, cheap prizes really aren’t all that valuable, and that asking people for money with no purpose isn’t necessarily the best way to treat your friends and family.

I don’t know what happened to the PTA. I knew that they always had their hands in raising money for the schools, but I always thought it was more than that. It makes me sad it’s no longer this way. At least, not at my daughter’s school.

Parents, how do you handle PTA fundraisers? Is your PTA similar to ours?

 

Filed Under: Family matters, Money

Roommate: yes or no?

February 6, 2013 by Jana 18 Comments

someecards.com - We'll be perfect roommates as long as you never touch anything of mine and leave the second my friends come overWhen you’re deciding to move out on your own, one of the first questions on your mind is usually “should I get a roommate?” It’s an important question and it’s certainly not a decision that should be entered into lightly. A roommate or roommates can make or break a living situation, and if you don’t choose carefully, you could be in for a very long year (or however long your lease is for).

Who you live with is almost as important as where you live. After all, this is the person who you share your living space with. The person who will probably get to know many of your disgusting and unsavory habits. The person who will turn you on or off to living with others in the future. And while there are a number of qualities and characteristics you’re going to want to know about (significant others, pets, work schedule, stuff like that), it’s also important to weigh the pros and cons of having a roommate before you make a decision.

Let’s explore some of those:

Pros

  • Someone to share expenses. If you’re striking out on your own for the first time, the cost of maintaining a home can be quite shocking. You might be working in an entry level job with a small salary or maybe you’re an entrepreneur just starting out. A roommate can help ease the burden of some expenses.
  • Someone to share household maintenance. Maintaining a home doesn’t just include repairs. It also includes cleaning, grocery shopping, paying bills, and a number of activities. Having a roommate to split the chores with spreads the responsibility around as well as saves each person time (since no one is doing everything).
  • Someone to socialize with. This is especially helpful if you’re moving to a new city or town. If you move in with someone who’s already living there or you move with someone who’s also new, it’s less likely that you’ll feel lonely. You’ll be more encouraged to go out and explore and perhaps meet new people.

Cons

  • Dealing with a deadbeat. Let’s face it. Not everyone is as responsible as we are. You may pick a roommate who can’t manage the $5 in his wallet or keep a job, never mind paying his portion of the bills. Having someone to split the bills with may mean that you pay everything up front and then wait to get paid back. Which, sadly, might not happen.
  • Living with a slob. There are lots of people who don’t like to clean, don’t care to clean or just don’t know how to clean. When it all comes down to it, it’s just a matter of not wanting to clean, because even if you don’t know how, you can certainly learn. But if you’re someone who likes to live in a neat, orderly, clean house and your roommate leaves dirty laundry, pizza boxes and wet towels all over the apartment, a clash is bound to occur.
  • Personality conflicts. Not everyone, not even the best of friends, are meant to live together. You may be a night owl while your roommate is a morning person. He may like to entertain while you prefer small gatherings. You may be loud, she may be quiet. There are any number of toxic combinations that can occur when two (or more) people live together.

Having a roommate can be the best—or the worst—experience of your independent living. It’s essential that you carefully consider all the factors available to you before you decide to live with someone else.

Have you had a roommate? Why? What are some factors that were important to you when deciding on a roommate? 

Filed Under: Money

Term Vs. Whole Life Insurance: The Eternal Debate

February 4, 2013 by Jana 10 Comments

This is a guest post from Mindy Lamont, the Founder & CEO at The Insurist and participant in Bloggers Helping Bloggers. As a former sheepherder, she finds life insurance and financial planning just a bit more exciting.

Term vs. Whole Life insurance.

I sigh just typing those words. Several times.

wpid-1332151853_life-insurance-policyPeople get all sorts of riled up on this topic. Cue the likes of Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey. It’s like the Vegan argument. Full of passion, idealism, emotion, and half truths. And no, I’m not calling Vegans liars. My diet comes close, without all the emotion. Same with my views on term vs. whole life.

I believe they’re both good. Depends on the client. Put into the wrong hands, a whole life policy can be like kryptonite for your finances. In the right hands, and much later down the road, a well designed whole life policy can be a diamond in the rough, just waiting to be harvested. This is where the confusion lies. The pundits like to portray this as an apples to apples comparison. It’s not. At all.

Let’s start with defining term coverage. Term is the most basic form of life insurance. At the time of underwriting your risk profile determines your premium. That premium is guaranteed for a certain number of years. 1, 5, 10, 15, 20, etc…usually in five year increments. At the end of the initial term, the premiums typically skyrocket. Why? Because term life insurance isn’t designed to go on forever.

Often times this increase in premium is described as a scam or another example of the insurance industry trying to take your money. It’s really not. It’s just that these products are not intended to go beyond their initial term. That is all. You might think someone who was uninsurable at the end of a term policy might have to continue and pay these enormous premiums. Likely not. Why? Because of something called a conversion privilege…one of the most important concepts when it comes to buying term like insurance.

What’s a conversion privilege you ask? The majority of term policies provide the ability to convert to another, usually permanent, product with no additional evidence of insurance. Huge, right? That means if during the duration of your term policy you decide you want life insurance for life you can get the same amount of coverage in a permanent product guaranteed. The devil’s in the fine print though, because some policies limit the number of years you can take advantage of this, so make sure you know what you’re getting into.

So the summary on term life: simple, affordable coverage that is intended to cover a temporary risk for a defined number of years.

Whole life isn’t so easy to explain. This is often part of the problem. Hard to explain and harder to understand if you’re not eating, drinking, and breathing life insurance every day. This is what leads to the product being SOLD instead of understood.

Whole life is best used as a savings product, not strictly for death benefit protection. And it’s a LONG TERM savings product when used this way. While there are many different uses for whole life products, I’m going to stick to its application as a safe money savings tool.

Treating it as an apples to apples comparison with term life products, the premium numbers immediately point out we’ve got big differences. For the healthiest 35 year old man, a $1 million 20 year term policy will run something in the neighborhood of $40 per month for 20 years. For the same guy, a $1 million dollar whole life policy will cost $820 per month through age 65. Say what?!? No that’s not a typo. $40 a month vs. $820 a month. Who in their right mind would pay $820 for something they can get for $40?

No one. Because it’s not the same policy.

The difference in this example is what happens INSIDE the policy and what you can do with it. Some call it a “living” benefit. If we look at the whole life policy at the end of twenty years (when the term policy expires), the whole life policy has a minimum guaranteed cash value of $231,360, where as the term policy has no cash value built up. If the client pays premium to age 65 and uses the cash value to supplement his retirement income, he has the potential of adding over $27,000 to his annual income from age 65 to 95. So for a total of $196,900 paid over 30 years, the client can potentially draw $834,600 (over the next 30 years) out of the policy on a tax free basis. Yep, you read that correctly. On a tax free basis.

The next argument against whole life typically comes in the form of “buy term and invest the difference.” Often times they’re right, particularly when the client doesn’t have 30 years to let their money accumulate. But rather than lose your attention completely, I’ll stop here and take a break. In a follow up post we’ll tackle that one, with numerical examples so you can see where this does and doesn’t make sense.

One thing to point out is while we are using the same theoretical client for this example, in real life, the two product examples I’ve used would be applied to two completely different clients. One with a need for basic life insurance protection (i.e. the term product) and one with a decent amount of discretionary cash available to contribute to a long term savings plan. The need for term insurance can be easily identified and solved. The suitability of a whole life policy should only be determined after a thorough discovery process. If someone’s trying to shove it down your throat, run fast.

Thanks for listening. I’m happy to take any questions, and I’ll be back with more on this topic in a future post (Jana’s note: and she will be. Soon. Because although I grew up in a house with an insurance broker for a father, I don’t understand this stuff at all. And it’s important).

**Please note: there are all sorts of disclosures about theoretical explanations of insurance products. Things like “this example is only for a 35 year old healthy male in California who’s never been skydiving, didn’t party like a rockstar, and doesn’t play with tigers.” You get the picture. The figures here are for explanation purposes only and represent no guarantees related to any specific person reading this. Play nice kids.

 

 

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