On the Jana Says Facebook page, I recently asked what 10 beauty/makeup items would you keep if you could only have 10 items for the next 10 years (there were some great answers and I'd love to hear yours so please hop on over there and leave a comment). My list included:
- One of those chunky eyeliner/eye shadow combo things
- Mascara
- Tinted lip balm
- Moisturizer
- Bath and Body Works paraffin hand lotion
- My flat iron
- Ponytail holders
- Nail polish colors I'm Not Really a Waitress (OPI) and Chocolate Kisses (Essie)
- An emery board
I didn't include items like soap, shampoo, razors, etc, because I put those in a different category. And borrowing of other items is permitted for special occasions.
(Note: Another exercise I do in my own head is figuring out what I would pack if I had to move in two hours and could only take with me what would fit in the trunk of my car. We can talk about that another day if you'd like.)
The reason I asked the question is because I am becoming increasingly interested in the concept of minimalism. I am intrigued by things like the 40 hanger closet. The idea of having a small amount of items that are meaningful, purchased consciously, used regularly and are of good quality rather than spontaneously purchased junk thrills me. The thought of having one main product–like my iPad–which is multifunctional and portable is lovely.
And while I dwelled on the idea of minimalism, I started thinking about the reasons why I love the idea. And I came up with these main reasons:
Organization
I have learned that one of the best ways to manage my anxiety–which is a trigger for my depression–is to keep my house clean and organized. When I can look at a room, see everything put away, and items that belong in that room are, in fact, the only items in that room, it eases my mind. It makes me feel at peace. Which is extremely important.
Staying organized is hard. There are so many systems and ideas and methods to follow that it can be overwhelming. Overwhelming picking out which one to follow, where to start, and how to maintain. While the simplest advice is “pick what works for you”, I figure that for me, the method that works the best is to not have too much stuff. Beause the less items we have, the easier it is to stay organized as there's less to attend to and less clutter to keep in check.
Narrows choices
I have tremendous difficulty making decisions. Not big, major ones, but small ones like which nail polish color should I use this week or what socks should I wear or water or iced tea. It's annoying, actually, to get paralyzed by small mundane choices. I've realized, though, that part of the reason I get dumbfounded by the choices is I just have too much stuff to choose from. It's like walking into a supermarket and deciding what cereal to buy and you have no coupon to help push you in a direction. There are so many options you just know that you'll make a choice and then immediately doubt yourself.
Only having a few items to choose from helps eliminate that self doubt. You know that everything you have was intentionally purchased and you love it, so there is no regret. Each decision is a good one. And it doesn't take 20 minutes to make, which saves time. That's good, too.
Saves money
I don't even know how many thousands of dollars I have wasted over the last few years buying stuff that I liked in the store or at the counter, used once, and then never touched again because it either fell apart, was sheer crap, washed poorly, or dozens of other reasons. Or they were given away, donated, or thrown out because I purchased many of these items on a whim and never got around to using them.
It's actually quite sad.
Which is why it makes no sense to me anymore to purchase something just to purchase it. It's foolish. Embracing the concept of buying things intentionally forces you to think about where your dollars really are going and it forces you to think about the value of the item in your life. It eliminates shopping as a hobby, which saves money and reduces clutter. And when you are spending money on the unimportant, it doesn't leave much left for the important.
The fourth aspect of minimalism that I like is that it just saves time. Time not spent cleaning and putting things away. Time not spent shopping for crap. Time not spent deciding what to wear so people you don't care about are impressed with how you look. Not spending time on that gives more time for the hobbies, work, people, and anything else you truly love. Time is something that's hard to get back. Why waste it?
I'm not sure that I can ever become a complete minimalist. I live with two other people who don't seem to completely share my ideas. However, I can work on the areas in my control. And I figure that's a start.
How about you? How do you feel about minimalism?
SMD @ Life According to Steph says
I freaking missed that question, which makes me mad because I would totally have participated. Especially since I just kung fu’d a bunch of cosmetics that I had been holding onto and never using.
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Jana says
You can still participate! I’d love to hear what you kung fu’d.
Tia says
I love the idea of the minimalist concept. I am currently and actively purging double items in my home and being mindful of living with less when making purchases. It is so freeing!
Jana says
It is freeing! Instead of feeling like my stuff owns me, I feel like I own my stuff. Just wonderful.
Jenniemarie @ Another Housewife says
I think I am falling in love with the idea too. I have completely cleared out our kids rooms and am currently working on the rest of the house. It used to be hard for me to throw things away but lately I have no problem filling up a trash bag!
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Jana says
I love getting rid of stuff. It’s so liberating! My husband and child, however, love to hang on to EVERYTHING.
Tara @ Streets Ahead Living says
I am with you completely on clutter and anxiety. I’m realizing more and more that the clutter in my house is causing me serious anxiety to the point where I don’t want to do anything when I get home from work. I love my husband but he is a collector… and it drives me bananas. IE a friend (he no longer talks to) got him a knick-knack from Germany and he still has to keep it. And he has tons of things like this. But then I have my own idiosyncrasies that he has to deal with so we are working through the clutter together. We’ve now gotten to an agreement that we will be packing up things to store off-site so that the house can stay relatively simple and minimalist.
And minimalism is the key to cleaning less. Hell, we could probably get rid of an entire bookshelf if we got rid of all the books we never will read again and all the movies we never re-watch.
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Jana says
I’d love to get rid of books and movies but my husband swears he’ll read or watch them again. He does that with lots of things. Sigh.
Glad he’s not the only one!
Deb says
My husband and I are embracing the idea of minimalism little by little. It all started when our house got flooded years ago and that left us with days of throwing things left and right because it doesn’t make sense to keep those that were submerged in water. We then realized that we had a lot of stuff around that we don’t need. We still have some more left here, but now we are trying to let go of some of the things we kept for years. We want to have only the things that we will use, nothing more than that so it would be easy for us to take those up in their shelves or cabinets in case another typhoon hits our area.
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Jana says
I’m so sorry to hear about the flooding! I dread something like that happening, although that might finally be incentive for my husband to get rid of some things. Then again, he’d probably try to figure out a way to salvage the stuff :/
Terry @ Path to Simple says
Saves money – that’s a huge one. This is kinda weird, but if I’m in a store I’ll pretend it’s a museum. The stuff there is cool to look at, but not for sale. It’s a little mind hack that seems to work.
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